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i've been here for awhile... but i still wanted to say hello!.
i'm fine.. i'm just not used to humans eating bugs..
save a bug eat a cow! (and remember..emu is bad for the digestion)
and as far as saving gumbo over night before eating it...
fly to new orleans and have it cooked by someone else..it always tastes better that way!
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i've been here for awhile... but i still wanted to say hello!.
anyone know how to cook lobster tail?
ewwwwww you eat sea bugs! yuck! bleah! those are over grown mud bugs! ick.. yuck....pewwwwwwwwwwwwww
(still wanna cook em?) lol
in the jehovah's witness church, the elders were allowed to tell other church members because everyone in the church is considered an ordained minister.
but they were not allowed to tell authorities outside the church, the court records said.
i wonder if she misunderstood?.
When their mother, Sara Poisson, reported the abuse to church elders between six and 10 times, they told her to "be a better wife" and to pray more, the records said.
i wonder if that sounds bizarre to outsiders.. i know it sounds bizarre to me but totally believable because i've heard it before myself.
so........ this article is saying that the abuse was told to regular members of the congregation, and that was supposedly ok because everyone baptized is an ordained minister?
well............if nothing else.. maybe the publicity will help regular members be more likely go to police when they hear about abuse.. even under the threat of being df'd. i hope as time goes on more wrongs are righted. these brave girls are trail blazers!
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i've been here for awhile... but i still wanted to say hello!.
i'm newer than you are .. nanner nanner nanner...
hello old ones!
i haven't posted for a while.
i'm starting to really lose my cool.
i'm angry all the time, it seems at everyone.
Mrs tim! i'm sorry i just now seen this post.. or i would have replied sooner.
my advice..... be very very careful what your angry about. you admit to PTS (which i have too) and it can really overwhelm you and things you'd normally just be " irritated" about you become FURIOUS about. so stepping back and thinking " is this worth all this anger" or " is my anger towards my husband in proportion to what he did", will help.
Research PTS online, READ.. it can help your brain create paths to reasoning that otherwise you may not have.
do a little internal role playing.. the "what if" game.. what if my marriage ended what would i do, how would i cope , would i miss him, how would the child/children cope, what would day to day life be like apart.. ..
and alternatively " what if we make our marriage work, what would we/i do, how would we cope , what would day to day life be like, what are my short term goals and are his goals compatible..
daydreaming / mentally going over the choices can help you figure out what you WANT. and may help you figure out what you need .
PTS is hard to live with because you never know what will trigger it and it wears on your nerves big time.
find things to laugh about, find things that bring you a measure of joy, if you can, find those things with him, i hope you can work it out. but if you guys dont work it out that doesnt mean your " destined to be alone" it means you can put on your high heels and go huntin again. (eventually)
i thought the phrase was " survivial of the fattest"
DOH! now i gotta go on a freakin diet
i see this all the time, but cannot find a good explanation of what it means....
now that i have your attention.
with the total anonymity available on-line, is it truly cheating, to flirt with, tease, or even "have sex" with someone via your computer?
is this the same as actually committing adultery, or is it just generally "harmless" fun?
dangit i missed the sex thread of the weekend!
ASL ASL ASL!
wanna rub my beak?
commmere baby lemme show you whats under my feathers!
bawk bawk bawk bawk OH GOD BAWK!
anycockadoodledoooooooo....
ok enough emu jokes..
hehe seriously,
if i had a spouse that had cyber sex i'd not have considered it cheating.. but if he'd developed a cyber relationship where he talked about real stuff and was eager to go talk to her instead of me i'd have considered it cheating. its not the talking dirty that is betrayal, its the building of relationships outside of the marriage that is.
my mother has been expressing to us how she reluctantly is beginning to see that the organization indeed has some problems.
she is starting to "feel" that things aren't right.
this past thursday, they gave a "marking" talk for my daughter who hasn't attended a meeting in years.
i caught that too lis.. disgusting. all of its disgusting that they should treat an elderlly one in such a way.
everyone has something inside that gives them a special quality (everybody ) so what would you say is yours?
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please don't be negative because you do have something special .
how'd i miss this thread?
i'm yoooneek
and an O- ridge- anal.........no thats not the right word to break up..
i'm special cuz i've been crushed by circumstance and yet i still squrim and wiggle in the agony of this so called life.
