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  My Dad's story

  by coffee_black in

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  freedomlovers post about her dads letter got me thinking about my dad, in fact, it sounds like it could have been written by my dad.

  every once in a while it really hits me that he is no longer here to talk to.

  unlike most of you, i wouldnt have been afraid to approach him with questions or doubts.

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  AuntieJane

  What a beautiful tribute. Your father's love was a true gift. Thank you for sharing.

  AJ
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  my last meeting

  by flag in

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  almost a month without meetings

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  AuntieJane

  Welcome flag! I hope you hang around awhile. Your kids are most fortunate to have you as a parent. Honesty is important, isn't it? Unfortunately, in the WTS system of things, that is not always the case.

  Peace,

  AJ
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  requiem

  by bebu in

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  i feel the need to update the ending to my mother's story.. after her surgery last september, when no tumor was found, she went home to enjoy happy visits from family (constantly), recovery, and two new kittens.

  one month of happiness at her home, which she had designed herself 20 years ago.

  my parents were reading and preparing her for living with ms, which was her new diagnosis.. .

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  AuntieJane

  Bless you sweet Bebu...your mama is no doubt smiling down on you.

  AJ
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  hi everyone :)

  by jojochan in

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  just wanted to drop a line and say "hi".

  i too am a long time lurker that "came out" sort of speaking.

  (' bout 2 yrs!

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  AuntieJane

  Welcome, and may you enjoy your newfound freedoms, step by step!

  AJ
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  I'M GETTING REALLY FORGETFUL

  by Mary in

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  i swear to god, i'm getting alzheimers even though i'm still pretty young (late 30s).

  my mind wanders alot (it always has) and i forget things.......hell the other day i put the jam in the bottom of the stove because my mind was wandering.......

  anyone else think they've got alzheimers?

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  AuntieJane

  I know that stress can totally throw me out of whack as far as remembering things. I also know that I find myself

  listening to people talking directly at me and seeming to follow their conversation...but I know I am not listening

  because I am thinking of other things (like my sister's illness, my mother's condition, etc.). I hate that but I just

  find I tune others out lately. That kind of scares me but I think it is the stress.
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  Guilt book by Dr Laura

  by AuntieJane in

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  i know she can be a b*tch herself, but she does shell out some good sense and i think she has helped a lot of people.. might be interesting for exjw's and others to contact her w. their stories.

  i think if she is overwhelmed w. the stories of.

  exjws she would speak about it on her show; what a good way to let the innocents know what a hurtful org this is.. from her website, www.drlaura.com.

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  AuntieJane

  You don't have to like her, but this might be a good way to get some important words out.
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  Guilt book by Dr Laura

  by AuntieJane in

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  i know she can be a b*tch herself, but she does shell out some good sense and i think she has helped a lot of people.. might be interesting for exjw's and others to contact her w. their stories.

  i think if she is overwhelmed w. the stories of.

  exjws she would speak about it on her show; what a good way to let the innocents know what a hurtful org this is.. from her website, www.drlaura.com.

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  AuntieJane

  I know she can be a b*tch herself, but she does shell out some good sense and I think she has helped a lot of people.

  Might be interesting for exJW's and others to contact her w. their stories. I think if she is overwhelmed w. the stories of

  exJWs she would speak about it on her show; what a good way to let the innocents know what a hurtful org this is.

  From her website, www.drlaura.com

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  im hurt, desperate, confused and considering this religion - advice?

  by very_confused in

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  like the subject title says, i'm hurt, desperate and confused and don't know what to do anymore.

  i'm so desperate to have something to live for that i'm considering converting to something like the jehovah's witnesses.

  i know this might seem a bit extreme but please hear me out.

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  AuntieJane

  I am glad to see you back on the board; I have been worried about you You were dealt an awful hand, having a mother who was a psycho/(sorry, but the word seems to fit)...however, you are blessed because inspite of your upbringing, you are a wise and caring person who knows she needs some help in this world! How great is that. We all need help, in all different ways. We all didn't have a terrible parent like you, but we all need guidance throughout our lives. I am glad you came to this board.

  I would not suggest you go to an AA meeting, although I do see the correlation; the AA is a private group, open to those with alcoholic related problems. Is there some group listed in your local newspaper that is appealing? Here in the US there are all kinds of listings in the classified ads for group meetings. I am glad you saw a counselor.

  Please keep working on yourself; I think you are doing fine. It takes time, this growing up business.

  pm me if you feel so inclined.

  Peace,

  AuntieJane
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  Desiderata

  by darkuncle29 in

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  desiderata .

  go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

  as far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.

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  AuntieJane

  Ah, thanks for the memory. This was put to music, of sorts, back in the 70's; I found a framed print of it not too

  long ago and hung it on my spare bedroom wall. It gets lots of nice comments.

  Have a listen: http://www.kamahl.com/desiderata.html

  AJ
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  What Advice Would You Like To Give JWs And Potential Ones?

  by minimus in

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  anything you'd like to say???

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  AuntieJane

  Welcome biloxi girl...So, did your husband listen to you and is he out as well?

  What I would say: If you value every freedom that you have, run, don't walk, because those freedoms will be stifled, and you will be damaged for life because of it.

  AuntieJ