I started attending AA meetings in 1989 and am still going even though it is sporadic these days. At first it bothered me about the higher power, the Serenity Prayer and the Our Father at the end of the meeting. You have to remember, I was a JW elder when I started attending and we didn't believe the same as those "religious crazies"....remember!
But it worked for me and I have some really great friends in AA. The praying doesn't bother me at all now because I am still a believer but now I call myself a Christian. But lets get away from the Christian aspect and talk!
One thing that bothers me about....not AA itself...but a lot of people in AA who make it as bad as a cult......saying if you don't attend all the meetings, you will fail. NOT TRUE! As I said, I only go to a meeting now and then these days, but a lot of my friends still go to a lot of meetings.
Now if you want to look into something other than AA, I would suggest Rational Recovery. It works too! Nothing at all said about God or a higher power. It is a great alternative for a lot of people.
http://www.rational.org/
I have their book and it is great.
Good luck on you road to sobriety.
HappyDad