Posts by vitty

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Dating a JW and how to get her off the cult or becoming a member myself

by svennibenni in

i'm sorry if i'm totally wrong here but i have a serious problem.. i met a woman in the company i work in via intranet.

it is a very big company with offices all over the world.

she moved to the united kingdom just a few month before we met.

vitty

I think she is also in a terrible dilemma, her natural self wants you, wants to be with you and wants to have a normal relationship with you. Her cult self is terrified of doing what is wrong and dying at armageddon, losing face, losing her family. I married outside the "truth" but got my husband "in" after 5 years thinking our life would be great, unfortunately 25 years on, the legacy is too great. Now my daughter is married and also trapped in this cult. I fund out about the organization, but its very hard to try to tell your family!

The cost is too great...............if you can get her to question it and research it for herself, maybe you have a chance. But you will NEVER convince her its not the truth. It will ruin both your lives

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IP adress

by vitty in

jw
friends

what happens when you move location ?

does your ip change or is it your personal computer number and it stays the same wherever you are ?.

yes i am that thick.

vitty

What happens when you move location ? does your IP change or is it your personal computer number and it stays the same wherever you are ?

Yes I am that thick

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Hypnotherapy, Anyone?

by Princess Daisy Boo in

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friends

has anyone been to see a hypnotherapist to deal with issues or bad habits?

what did you go for and what was it like - and are you any better as a result?.

i have been reading up on hypnotherapy for weight loss and i am curious!.

vitty

I tried it............it didnt work. Maybe it was the therapist or maybe it was me.

I did get a tape that you need to play over and over again..............it has subliminal messages on it. That didnt seem to work either. I just want to loose 10lb but cant I ? nope

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NOW THEY HAVE PHOTOGRAPHIC EVIDENCE............

by vitty in

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friends

thats right, i think weve blown our fade.

we had our non witness family to stay over the holidays and my (reckless) husband took photos from my sisters new camera with our lovely , big xmas tree in the background.

she went home was showing my other jw sister (she didnt know it was there cant work the camera yet), and there it was.

vitty

Im not going to bring it up............Im just going to be more loving, more supportive and try and prove family is more important than this s````t, dont know what else to do!

She knows we dont go anymore but we havent "done anything wrong" so it didnt matter. But now we have....... "consciences" sets in and shes got a big one............shes not hard line but a victim. She is stuck in it and im sure she wants out but is trapped by circumstances.

I just hope they dont give a talk on telling for the good of the sinner. She may feel she needs to for our sake.

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NOW THEY HAVE PHOTOGRAPHIC EVIDENCE............

by vitty in

jw
friends

thats right, i think weve blown our fade.

we had our non witness family to stay over the holidays and my (reckless) husband took photos from my sisters new camera with our lovely , big xmas tree in the background.

she went home was showing my other jw sister (she didnt know it was there cant work the camera yet), and there it was.

vitty

Thats right, I think weve blown our fade. We had our non witness family to stay over the holidays and my (reckless) husband took photos from my sisters new camera with our lovely , big xmas tree in the background. She went home was showing my other JW sister (she didnt know it was there cant work the camera yet), and there it was. when I spoke to her today she was a bit cool but my she didnt say anything.

I think my hubby did it on purpose, he is so cheesed off with it all but im worried. Oh i wish this nightmare of the twilight zone was over !!!!!

I just want to say to them" If you want to do this religion , do it but I dont".........................but the consequences are too huge !!

To think my whole family could never speak to me again because of a tree with lights...........madness

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Summer wine

by vitty in

i heard it for the first time last week and cant stop playing it.

i was wondering if it was from a film track?.

anyway i hope you enjoy it.

vitty

I think the video is very sexy, the girl is stunningly beautiful and he looks like Jhonny depp.................who I love

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Honestly, Did You "Care" So Much About The "Friends"?

by minimus in

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friends

there are a lot of people who have complained of "no love" in their congregations.

i'm wondering if they gave of themselves, in reality, if they look back.

as an elder, i tried to "be there" when someone was in need but i must admit that i didn't always want to have to listen to a person's problems or a families' issues or some of the most ridiculous complaints, you could imagine.. were you really there for your brothers and sisters?

vitty

I tried to be hospitable but in the end I felt used. In the hall everyone is too busy to help and its always left to a few charitable souls.

To be honest I didnt want or need help or "love" and as im a anti social person it was hard for me to interact on a regular basis . Three times a week meeting with people was enough !!

I had my friends...............but kept them at a distance................im like that now..........I never complained about the lack of love, but saw it when I left

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