Talesin (and Bells) I hear what you are saying about meds, and I know they aren't the solution for everyone. My particular rant is against the notion that pain meds are always BAD and should be avoided at all costs because they WILL addict you. Simply not true, and far too many people have suffered needlessly as a result. As Bells says, science has made incredible advances in pain management. I believe pain medication is the same as any other type of drug that helps you manage a medical condition. Which pain is.
My heart goes out to anyone dealing with chronic pain. There is nothing more soul destroying than to wake up every morning in pain, having no idea how you will get through the first 15 minutes, let alone the rest of the day. People who judge pain meds have never experienced that kind of relentless, unforgiving pain.
I know so many people who resorted to double/triple doctoring because no one would prescribe them adequate meds. I also know many addicts who steal pain meds for their personal high. So I'm not innocent in that regard, either.
When it comes to pain, though, whatever works personally is what matters. I'd love to not have to take meds. I often think about the people in New Orleans - how would I fare if suddenly I lost my medication for several days? No one wants to be reliant on a drug. But you also need to maintain a good quality of life.
Anecdotal evidence may not have scientific backing (which I think is really important) but sometimes it puts us onto something that does work. Ideas from others about what worked for them is invaluable. Perhaps most importantly, if you believe in a therapy, you increase the chances it will be successful. I believe in music/art therapy, and it is supported by research, even though it may be in its infancy.
Tal - I think it's awesome that you are finding relief through music. That particular power is only just beginning to be explored, I think.