I think that the ex-jws should come to realise now that baptism is not about a one chance earned and secured contract for membership in the beast-god's private club - for the benefits of armageddon avoidance and future rewards.
All I can say is if you knew the Lord, you would take your newborn babes to Him because you simply couldn't wait to, as none other is so kind and dependable, so merciful, so reliable - so loving - no others that you can trust so absolutely to do the most right and good by your child.
Like Abraham, who believed against hope, in His goodness. There was in reality, no reason for him to worry about giving his only son, none at all, no one else could be trusted so with his well-being.
The lie of men is that God can't really be trusted, so better make sure your kids are prepared to come before this nasty judge.
Take your littlest children.
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