My sister in-law DAed back around 1981, she was told by the elders at the time that if she DAed she wouldn't be shunned by the family for doing this. I think right when she DAed though was the same time WT was changing their thinking on DAing and disfellowshipping making them equal for shunning.
My question is,
Is there a WT publication of something that you can pin down a date for the shift in policy? I think if I could show something like this to the rest of her family they might accept her back in the family. My wifes side of the family aren't really hardcore JW,s (mine is) and I think if I could prove to them that when she DAed this wasn't the policy (shunning) kind of like a grandfather clause situation. It would be great to get her back in the family,she has been hurt by her side of the family for a long time.
Thanks