The committee of three,the PO. the Secretary and the Service Overseer who decide if you qualify to pioneer turned me down.
First it was getting my KM from the book study leader (gawd I don't remember the possition title). Seems that my hand delivering my publisher records got misplaced by the PO, and they didn't order enough for the last 4 months because of it, so I had to "share" with my (new) husband.
About the same time, my "friends" started ignoring me at the hall. I'd end up alone going in F.S. if there were an odd number of us. And when I got bored as a new housewife, I asked to temporary pioneer, and was told that my family wasn't spiritually strong enough for me to pioneer. This was just before they told my (new) husband that they had considered him for an MS, but found him lacking because his whole family wasn't strong enough spiritually. Deceased dad, mother who pioneered, sister who pioneered, a bro-in-law who was an MS, and 3 others working their arses off in the ministry.
The Burns and Gamble show HATED my deceased father-in-law. Burns told me he was an evil man and deserved to go to hell! Seriously that's what the PO told me!
I didn't last more than a month after that, my husband already having stopped going because of his hurt. I think I managed 2 more memorials. This was late 1975 - so I've been out now over 30 years! YAY ME!