Violia - LOVE your avatar. My daughter sent me with that poster and it's the greatest! I hope everyone reads it - I like what the elders told you
thanks LV101 - the quote thing does not seem to work so I used the highlight.
Yes I saw this on FB and LOL and said, " that has to be my new avatar". .
yes the elder was at least honest with me. He had nothing to lose and neither did I. It was sort of sad hearing it for real. I always thought they were just a business he validated my perceptions.