Change is good if you do it for yourself !!!
Change is destructive the moment you do it for something else.
I went back to college, because my girlfriend needed someone with the "right" credentials.
I loved her and her daughter faithfully--no sex with other girls, even after 2 breakups lasting 5 mos. each.
Within 6 mos. of my degree ( OH--I was working full time as well ), she told me --- "You are not doing enough for me and my daughter------OHHH!!!!-----Guess what ??? --- when I met her, she was 'bankrupt, doing drugs that could have cost her the JOB, HOME, CUSTODY, ----and I LOVED HER UNCONDITIONALLY------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ DURING THE TIME I KNEW HER, SHE WEN'T FROM STRUGGLING TEACHER TO EDUCATION ADMIN.----DURING THE TIME I KNEW HER---AND GAVE HER EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL SUPPORT !!!!!!!!
I GUESS POETIC JUSTICE PREVAILS !!!!
She has been dating for 1-1/2 yrs. , and still is looking for MR. Perfect !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IF YOU ARE A GOOD WOMAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!--- MEN WILL LINE UP TO TAKE CARE OF YOU IN A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP !!!!!!