Welcome Infared,
You could always use their own tactics with them.
I especially like the scriptural advise to "win them
without a word". Your lifestyle, accomplishments
and especially your true happiness will far out shine
anything you could say. When they are ready then
I hope they will ask questions.
Remember when a new one would be obnoxiously
over zealous when they "found the truth"? Same
could apply to us when we discover the truth about
"The Truth". I also slipped thru the cracks and now
completely shunned!! Very hurtful at first but by their
actions they shall be known.
hang tuff good buddy and look forward to your posts,
Cheers,
Battman