Char - this was my absolute fav:
I think you've misunderstood what I "clarified."
I don't think that there is as much of the ridicule or bullying or is as intense as some make out. Yes there have been some pretty nasty ones where it just turned into handbags at dawn but the real issue is still the ideas.
As an atheist I could constantly whine about believers mocking my lack of belief, belittling my experiences, downgrading my every word because it doesn't come with a divine seal of approval like theirs does. I could be bitter about being told I'm not chosen , I'm spiritually disabled (hard of hearing and seeing) or constantly being invalidated as not of the House of JarHat MyHairShirtsOnFire or some such religious order. I could but I don't . The vast majority of the time I , and others, go straight to the logical conclusion of a statement and ask a searching question (e.g. if prayers are answered why aren't everyone's) and we wait for an answer. Sometimes answers have got some merit (they attempt to answer the question rather than restate the belief in another way) but very rarely do searching theological questions arrive at any meat beyond - some stonewall about it being a personal revelation so get over it. The inevitable questions follow regarding what is the point, is there any evidence beyond some supernatural experience (that is almost always explainable by simple biology , psychology and neurology) and a refutation.
This is a standard, open discourse ways of approaching truth. There has to be more than a simple testimony for an idea to have wider application and weight amongst accepted society. That which many seem to describe as bullying is either strident questioning or rejection of an unsupported idea. When it gets personal it's normally in response to something personal stated by the argument proposer (why are atheists angry/ you need to understand/ your exprience isn't as valid as mine etc.) The less belief someone has the more they have to own their words and the less they have to rely on devices such as - 'I'm sharing what <divine proxy> wants me to tell you.'
Don't mistake lack of reverence for your idols as a personal attack. Until you make it so.