I went through phases myself...from zealous to overly zealous and back to just ordinary. During my zealous days I used to be especially judgemental of others who were doing 'less' then I was...or who were 'weak'. Cliques are a terrible thing, and quite often you could find the zealots together back stabbing those less spiritual...that was me and my elderette buddies.
Now, as far as my own personal standing in the 'troof' goes, I prefer to be either one, or the other. In, or out...no mucking around. However, I also have have family in, and they are doing through an inactive patch (yipee) and instead of judging them, I salute them. My younger brother is asking us for ideas for what to buy his worldly girlfriend for xmas etc...and my younger sister snaps at her joho friends when they ask her about her meeting attendance. So now, I rejoice for those who's WT trained spirituality has declined.
~Beck~