I tend to agree with logansrun....I have never heard of people being DF for french kissing....I have never heard of people being reproved for it either.
~Beck~
a number of years ago, a body of elders discussed the matter of "french kissing".
they came to the conclusion that this practice of "french kissing" was a disfellowshipping offense on the grounds of "engaging in loose conduct".
one young couple were judicially reproved for their "sin" and the elders felt that since the matter was not widely known, that they would be "privately reproved".
I tend to agree with logansrun....I have never heard of people being DF for french kissing....I have never heard of people being reproved for it either.
~Beck~
i guess that some parts to the cultish religion are hard to shake off.
simply put, i still worry that maybe i'm wrong.
(i still wouldn't want to live in a new world with those idiots, even if they were right).
How Long Does It Take To Forget?
You will never forget....you will just learn to deal with it in your own way and in your own time. None of us have forgotten, that's why we're all here. Our memories are still active...and we deal with it by sharing, laughing, crying...but the beauty of it is 'we are dealing with it'.
Hang in there Shamus.
~Beck~
"marry only in the lord"...... if you marry outside the "truth", your marriage "will be doomed"...... what was your experience regarding a mutual witness marriage?
was it all that it was cracked up to be???
did you know of others that had a great marriage because theywere witnesses?
Having a lasting marriage or a better marriage are two entirely different things. I think JW's in general have lasting marriages...not necessarily better marriages. I lasted 14 years with my first husband...they were not the best 14 years of my life....but I was obedient and patient and waited on Jehovah - ha!!! I'm still waiting for Jehovah to change him into a nice person.
~Beck~
blind obedience is what witnesses are known for.
is there anything that even they wouldn't do, if so instructed??
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My mother has been told not to associate with her DF and DA kids. She knows my brother is a hard and fast apostate, and she suspects that I am....but she still visits us and claims immunity because her grandchildren are not DF or DA....she tries to find a balance and is comfortable with her stand. If the elders told her she would get DF for talking to us...I think my mother would continue to see us in secret no matter what the elders said or did. Good on ya mum...Happy Mother's Day!!
~Beck~
did you ever drink a zombie?
zombie recipe.
1 ounce light rum .
The last time I got drunk I had to sit on a donut cushion for a few days afterwards
*giving JH a 'high five' before he runs out of posts*
~Beck~
a person i know, has a child, who is barely a teenager.
he just gave a talk in the hall, and guess what the topic was?.
i can understand a bible reading at that age, etc.
The Ministry School Overseer is obviously lazy. They are supposed to read the theme of each talk and match the student with the theme accordingly. It wouldn't surprise me if that elder is using a database where talk themes are matched with individuals in a rotation system. They are not advised to do this as some themes are not appropriate for the individual....they are expected to check each one manually. Some don't check, but they should.
~Beck~
yea, i did something i tought i'd never do.
i finally threw most of my jw hard cover books away.
i must have had about 50 jw books laying there on the floor in the closet.
If you even contemplated going back I would have to give you a spanking!
The only thing I'll be contemplating is what colour Gees to wear for my spanking
~Beck~
btt - sorry JH
so what's the worst job you've ever had?.
book-servant at the kingdom hall would be pretty bad, but ministerial lawn servant is probably worse.. outside the society, probably my worst job was waitering.
i have a very short short-term memory, although this is more than made up for by my ltm, which means i made a really sh*te waiter, let me tell you.
Being an elder's wife was the worst job I ever had....eeeekkkk!!!
~Beck~
yea, i did something i tought i'd never do.
i finally threw most of my jw hard cover books away.
i must have had about 50 jw books laying there on the floor in the closet.
I'm saving mine, just in case I go back.
~Beck~
did you ever drink a zombie?
zombie recipe.
1 ounce light rum .
Anything made with hops goes down well on a hot day. I don't suppose its a chick thing to drink beer out of a stubbie....but then I never was any good at being laa-dee-daa
The best beer in the world is Waikato!! Second best, Victorian Bitter (VB) IMHO
~Beck~