Posts by kwintestal

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Suggestions for JW Girlfriend?

by Mincan in

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so i've been seeing this jw girl for a couple weeks now... she kind of contacted me out of the blue (i've known her since i was 4, shes two years older than i) and wanted to hook up for coffee or something.

i avoided it for about half a month.

not really avoided it, but was going to have fun with it when it came, because i thought she was just going to try to encourage me to go to meetings and whatnot.. so, first time she calls me up at like 9:30pm on a weeknight to come over to her house... so i ride my bicycle over and go inside and she and her cousin were getting drunk on alcohol and they started getting me to drink.

kwintestal

To all here who want to control Mincan's sex life listen up if you will please ! If you read the CONTEXT of his initial post he was asking for advise in regards to how to reason with his girlfriend in getting her out of the witnesses , or at least reasoning with her on that topic . I find it absolutely ridiculous that people came on here firing torpedo's at this man in his 20's who had just had a FIRST EVER sexual experience with a 25 year old woman - imputing wrong motives to him for allegedly " leading astray " a JW adult woman. That's absolute bull$hit ! If the woman didn't want to be with him, I'm quite sure she would have made some other choice with how to spend her time ! She is accountable for her own decisions she makes as an adult , as is Mincan, and what they do in bed , or how long they do it is no ones damned business ; thank you very much . Unless some of you are lacking in your life in that department and want to live vicariously through Mincan's experiences . Which I think is pretty twisted. Just to let you know ( as if I need to ) next time my wife and I have sex- none of you will be informed. Hope that's not disappointing . Peace out, Mr. Flipper

Good call Flippy. Personally, I think the ones creating the big stink are the 40 year old virgins, pissed that M got some action 20 years before they did, and need to vent their frustration with themselves. It's sad, but understandable in that context, but at the same time too bad that when people are wrong, proven without a doubt that they are wrong, and keep up an argument to try to save face.

Hi5 Mincan!

Kwin

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Suggestions for JW Girlfriend?

by Mincan in

jw
friends

so i've been seeing this jw girl for a couple weeks now... she kind of contacted me out of the blue (i've known her since i was 4, shes two years older than i) and wanted to hook up for coffee or something.

i avoided it for about half a month.

not really avoided it, but was going to have fun with it when it came, because i thought she was just going to try to encourage me to go to meetings and whatnot.. so, first time she calls me up at like 9:30pm on a weeknight to come over to her house... so i ride my bicycle over and go inside and she and her cousin were getting drunk on alcohol and they started getting me to drink.

kwintestal

oh yea...you talk way too much
Out
Hill

a.k.a. I don't know what this young man is saying.

Kwin

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Suggestions for JW Girlfriend?

by Mincan in

jw
friends

so i've been seeing this jw girl for a couple weeks now... she kind of contacted me out of the blue (i've known her since i was 4, shes two years older than i) and wanted to hook up for coffee or something.

i avoided it for about half a month.

not really avoided it, but was going to have fun with it when it came, because i thought she was just going to try to encourage me to go to meetings and whatnot.. so, first time she calls me up at like 9:30pm on a weeknight to come over to her house... so i ride my bicycle over and go inside and she and her cousin were getting drunk on alcohol and they started getting me to drink.

kwintestal

Willing or not, you knew that she was vulnerable even when sober.

She's almost 25 ... They made a sober decision to have sober sex. So just because a person was a raised a JW they're all of a sudden vulnerable? Are you totally or just half stupid? I put that half stupid in there just because I didn't want to make a huge assumption or generalisation as SOME people on this thread seem to be doing. So I guess by your logic, a JW girl who gets married at say 19 years old is being taken advantage of. Is that right? They just had sex. He didn't marry her or tattoo his name on her forehead or something. You ever think that she's the one who took advantage of him? That could just as easily be said, but of course a man could never be a victim, right?

Cougar? shot at one once. Must not be the same thing.
Kids have been f*cking up since Adam and Eve started shuckin out kids.
Mark Twain even noted that the older he got... the smarter his dad became.
Get over it Kwin.
Hill

Who said that kids don't screw up? That's what life is about. Living and learning from the decisions that you make. What made Mark Twain's dad smarter? The fact that he was older? or the fact that he screwed up earlier in his life and learned from those mistakes? But this isn't about someone screwing up. It's about two young adults having safe and sober sex. What's your problem with that? Funny how you skip over the whole point I made about the over 50 crowd, but that wouldn't fit your adjenda, would it Hillbilly?

Kwin

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Suggestions for JW Girlfriend?

by Mincan in

jw
friends

so i've been seeing this jw girl for a couple weeks now... she kind of contacted me out of the blue (i've known her since i was 4, shes two years older than i) and wanted to hook up for coffee or something.

i avoided it for about half a month.

not really avoided it, but was going to have fun with it when it came, because i thought she was just going to try to encourage me to go to meetings and whatnot.. so, first time she calls me up at like 9:30pm on a weeknight to come over to her house... so i ride my bicycle over and go inside and she and her cousin were getting drunk on alcohol and they started getting me to drink.

kwintestal

I dont know Mincan... but he posts like most of the under 25 group I deal with daily.
Lot's of rationalisation for bad behavior and I never screw up....of course, how could it be bad..everyone else it telling me its ok...and morals and self-control are so yesterday...........
Kids... let em dig their own hole.
Hill

Funny, because I know quite a few over 45 like this too. Ever been to a cougar bar?

Darned old horney people, drinking and humping, and forgetting what mamma and pappa told them 30 years before. As I recall reading (but can't remember where) the largest % increase in STD's for the past 10 years are in the over 50 crowd.

You want to live like a prude, fine but don't try putting your moral compass on someone else.

Kwin

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Suggestions for JW Girlfriend?

by Mincan in

jw
friends

so i've been seeing this jw girl for a couple weeks now... she kind of contacted me out of the blue (i've known her since i was 4, shes two years older than i) and wanted to hook up for coffee or something.

i avoided it for about half a month.

not really avoided it, but was going to have fun with it when it came, because i thought she was just going to try to encourage me to go to meetings and whatnot.. so, first time she calls me up at like 9:30pm on a weeknight to come over to her house... so i ride my bicycle over and go inside and she and her cousin were getting drunk on alcohol and they started getting me to drink.

kwintestal

You're an adult man, right? She was an impaired, vulnerable woman. I don't give a good GD if you WERE virgins (that can never be said again, right?) or it happened once or 1000 times. YOU just changed her life...and it wasn't in a positive way. Quit making excuses, be a man and take some responsibility.

Carlos

You're reading too much into it Carlos, you're making assumptions and looking like an ass. Do yourself a favour and shut up.

Kwin

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WINGS IN " 5 " as I Prophesied.......

by nomoreguilt in

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friends

if you'll recall last week i made this prophesy.

that the red wings would take it in " 5 ".

well folks, tonight's the night.

kwintestal

Go Cards!

Yay! Uno anyone?

Kwin

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2008= Man who used Spiritism for winning Lottery numbers becomes Witness!

by Witness 007 in

2008 awake july p.11 "bibles view of spiritism" "...says luis who is from puerto rico;"from the time i was a child, my family was involved in spiritism....i thought my ability to foresee the future and read tarot cards was natural.

i could often pick lottery numbers and help others win money.

he must be rich...oh only for "others" what a shame!}.