Gill,
Wow....that is SO sad. The way people take advantage of elderly people's inability to stand up for themselves...
conning them into signing papers? That's awful. My mom was very very close to her Grandmother and was in her will. Before she passed away, the rest of the family somehow tricked her into changing it. Not getting money or whatever is not what bothered my mom, it was how some of her family pounced on the chance of getting money from her grandma while she was dying.
Oh yah, I'm sure he is just SOOO much better off with strangers that don't go to meetings than with some of his own FAMILY members who happen to not attend meetings.
This is all very sad. I'm sorry you're goin through this.
~Sarah