Jeff,
A very good topic! Those of us that were raised in the Borg were trained to be homophobic, along with all the other xenophobic dogma. So we really can't beat ourselves up for starting life out that way. We were inculcated from youth, as they like to brag about.
I grew an open mind as a young man, and questioned this along with all the other sexually repressive teachings of the organization. Most of them sprang from an old geezer virgin's interpretation of what homosexuals or prostitutes would do. Are you imitating something that would go on a house of prostitution? Don't you know masturbation will turn you gay? That crap scared me when I was young, but proved too ridiculous to believe as an adult.
So, thank God the blinders are off, and we can have a normal perspective. By the way, the ad at the bottom of the page for Gay Chubby Dating is a hoot. Where and the heck are ads for Straight Chubby Dating? I feel discriminated against!
JK