Hey Joel!
The internet is the first ammendment in action worldwide. What other outlet do any of us have in our life to be 100 percent honest and open with every thought in our minds and still have the security of anonymity and isolation?
While that security sure does bring some strange, unpleasant, and sometimes downright evil thoughts into public, it also brings total strangers closer together.
We have to be mature enough and open minded enough to tolerate the fact that someone is going to say things we don't like in order to get to the good aspects of this board and indeed the good aspects of life otherwise the internet's arena of free speech and thought is doomed.
It would come as no suprise if we learned that the most aggressive on this board were very quiet and subdued in person. I'm sure people have said things on this board in anger, in humor, in flirtation, that they would never in a million years say to a co-worker, friend, or spouse.
You're not a scared little kid in the way you put it, buddy. If you're not scared, you're not alive. But let me say this. Life is much more enjoyable when you decide not to let what people say bother you and if it does not to give them the satisfaction of seeing it bother you. Sure you'll still have occasion to get pissed off, what's life without that? Sometimes it's best to rise above a situation and walk away. In fact most of the time that's the best answer. In the heat of the moment we don't really think about the other person, we just see how so-and-so is a total asshole and what they had to say becomes the worst possible insult we've had since just after lunchtime.
I'd bet that many a member has woke up the next morning and thought about a post made in anger and regretted it. Thought about how it could have been worded differently.
Well, Joel, the day arguments and flame wars end is the day the internet truly becomes boring.
Sounds like you're not leaving or anything and I'm glad cause you seem pretty cool.
mike.
Expect nothing and you will never be disappointed,