I'm mean, eh? Perhaps you don't pay much attention to what you write here?
I would re-read all your posts as well as mine....and then tell me how mean I am.
under74
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IT IS.....................
by defd in.
2:40 am and i am at work eating bar b q fritos, drinking a redbull and pepsi and typing this all at the same time.
what a job huh?.
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YESTERDAY...
by under74 inor last night i hung out with an old friend.
she's always been strange to me.
we don't really believe in the same things but i always thought of her as a good person that was still fun to be around (in small doses) even if we had disagreements.. i hadn't seen her in a year or so.
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under74
Well, thanks for the comments guys...even you bull. I talked to a mutual friend about this today and I think there's nothing I can do about it. She wasn't raised religious but she was raised by people with mental issues and she's had some in the past. She's always been more or less rational though. So when this obedience thing came up it threw me. I think I might have to throw my hands up on this one because I can't see at this point having a rational conversation with her where she really hears me.
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by defd in.
2:40 am and i am at work eating bar b q fritos, drinking a redbull and pepsi and typing this all at the same time.
what a job huh?.
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under74
So you won't write my purposal?
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by defd in.
2:40 am and i am at work eating bar b q fritos, drinking a redbull and pepsi and typing this all at the same time.
what a job huh?.
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under74
You could keep yourself busy by writing my purposal for admission into this doctorate program.....won't take that long. Just use a lot of art and technology lingo ok?
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RANDOM WINE SUGGESTIONS- AUSTALIAN OR NEW ZEALAND...
by stillconcerned in.
my dear friend recently returned from new zealand and brought back some scrumptious wines.... you aussies or new zealanders; got any great wine suggestions?.
kimberlee d.
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under74
Australian or New Zealand?? Try Washington State wine! Sageland and Silver Lake are the best. Sageland also has an amazing winery and tasting room outside of Yakima, Washington with the nicest people....I got a whole lot of tastes for free!
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YESTERDAY...
by under74 inor last night i hung out with an old friend.
she's always been strange to me.
we don't really believe in the same things but i always thought of her as a good person that was still fun to be around (in small doses) even if we had disagreements.. i hadn't seen her in a year or so.
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under74
People sometimes get weird ideas stuck in their heads. I know that I had a sort of "schedule" for myself... married by a certain age, kids by a certain age...and I can't tell you why exactly. I look back and think that I needed a swift kick in the ass and a good talking to as my goals were all wrong. I sometimes think I read too many romance novels as a teenager.
I think most people have had these type of schedules....but then they grow up and realize that it can't be forced and put on a timeline. I'm used to hearing people talk about timelines and all that crap....what I'm not used to is having a young person (college educated...non-JW) thinking they should be in service to another because of their gender.
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Somebody should write this lady a letter!
by Why Georgia inthis comes from todays ask amy.
it really made me mad reading this.
the columist obviously isn't aware that many religions shun - some more than others!.
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under74
I don't know Why Georgia. The response seemed informed to me...although anyone can feel free to disagree.
The thing I see is that even though it's not right what this lady is doing to her kid...it may cause more damage to try to force her to have contact.
Just my opinion.
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YESTERDAY...
by under74 inor last night i hung out with an old friend.
she's always been strange to me.
we don't really believe in the same things but i always thought of her as a good person that was still fun to be around (in small doses) even if we had disagreements.. i hadn't seen her in a year or so.
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under74
But does your friend really have that mindset, or is she just using the thought of obeying her husband because the subject is "a woman should not work"??
I actually think she has the mindset now. She's totally off the wall. She thinks she needs to be married and gave kids by a certain age and it doen't matter whom she's married to or whether they are ready for kids. She also thinks that that I'm not doing my "duty" as a woman by not having kids and not really caring.
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YESTERDAY...
by under74 inor last night i hung out with an old friend.
she's always been strange to me.
we don't really believe in the same things but i always thought of her as a good person that was still fun to be around (in small doses) even if we had disagreements.. i hadn't seen her in a year or so.
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under74
all her hot friends (I'm the only one that I know of) disagree wih her FF.
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YESTERDAY...
by under74 inor last night i hung out with an old friend.
she's always been strange to me.
we don't really believe in the same things but i always thought of her as a good person that was still fun to be around (in small doses) even if we had disagreements.. i hadn't seen her in a year or so.
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under74
Could be...but hell, whou wouldn't want to stop working? The thing that bothers me is that I'm sure she actually believed what she said.