Posts by Bgurltryal

an action that can seem so small to one person or a desision made with selfish intent can have effects without the action taker or desicion maker even considering or realising it.

selfishness or self absorbation; we focus so much on us that the reprocusions of every little thing we do become inconsequential as long as we or those we care about are 'safe'.. when i was little in the car i would make up stories about people we drove past based on that split second they passed through my life.

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But if people are so selfish that they don't even think of the consequences of their actions on others then they learn nothing nor have a harder time living with themselvs. Or they do realise the consequences but since they aren't directly affected or this evil was a lesser evil to them than an alternative, they don't feel badly about their desision or rather don't beleive it to be a bad desision as long as they're O.K. erggggh...it just angers me alot that ultimately people are selfish creatures.

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People Suck

by Bgurltryal in

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do people in their existance create much more greif inadvertantly that they cause happiness with purpose?

an action that can seem so small to one person or a desision made with selfish intent can have effects without the action taker or desicion maker even considering or realising it.

selfishness or self absorbation; we focus so much on us that the reprocusions of every little thing we do become inconsequential as long as we or those we care about are 'safe'.. when i was little in the car i would make up stories about people we drove past based on that split second they passed through my life.

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A "good person" is one that recognizes that the most important person in his/her life is him/herself.

So as long as what you do benefits you it doesn't matter who you hurt along the way? That doesn't sound like a 'good' person to me.

My reason for writing this whole thing is someone did something out of their own personal issues that has put us in a less than desirable place and I'm angry about it so, being me, I am trying to see it from the offenders point of view. Most of the 'bad' i see exists within me too and if I'm able to recognise it then maybe i can remember what it's like to feel like this and prevent myself from creating this pain in someone else.

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People Suck

by Bgurltryal in

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do people in their existance create much more greif inadvertantly that they cause happiness with purpose?

an action that can seem so small to one person or a desision made with selfish intent can have effects without the action taker or desicion maker even considering or realising it.

selfishness or self absorbation; we focus so much on us that the reprocusions of every little thing we do become inconsequential as long as we or those we care about are 'safe'.. when i was little in the car i would make up stories about people we drove past based on that split second they passed through my life.

Bgurltryal

Do people in their existance create much more greif inadvertantly that they cause happiness with purpose? An action that can seem so small to one person or a desision made with selfish intent can have effects without the action taker or desicion maker even considering or realising it. Selfishness or self absorbation; We focus so much on US that the reprocusions of every little thing we do become inconsequential as long as we or those we care about are 'safe'.

When I was little in the car I would make up stories about people we drove past based on that split second they passed through my life. They affected my exhistance without ever knowing it. What if I passed through someones life and caused something negative?

Maybe I'm much less of a 'good person' than i realise.

Just thoughts going through my head after some crap going on here. I'm sure BboyNeko will let you know about it.

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DA'd myself today

by Pierced Angel in

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well, i did it.. it's official and i'm relieved.. the elders wanted to try talking to me once again, but after awhile it was obvious that they were only interested in changing my thoughts not answering any questions.

so, i just calmly asked if i could disassociate myself.

they acted stunned and they got tears in their eyes, but i told them that i had already grieved and was ready to move on with life.

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It's not that you 'can't have any morals without organized religion', it's that you have reasonable basis to consistently enforce your morals.

Unlike doing it because you have a concience which, as i recall, i had without some dude breathing down my neck with threat of death.

Anne- You're dope now I cannot fathom the courage that goes into what you had the balls to do. Also just wanted to add my own selfish opinion that you can also live a great life without god/jesus/whomever. Now back to Anne being dope...

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Funny Signs

by toddy in

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if you right click on the red x's and go to properties and copy the link you can load the pics. Some sites just don't let you link...Of course you have to be a loser to be so desperate to see the pics that you actually can be bothered to do that of course...by the way mommy your pic is too small...i meaaannnnn...

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Enterprise- new Star Trek series

by GoingNuts in

anybody want to chat about this sub or about any other startrek stuff, am a big tng,voyager fan.

sorry ds9 does nothing for me but will still chat about it.

seen the movie trekkies?

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whatever...you whine every time you miss it.

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article "Cult Status"

by peaceloveharmony in

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hi folks, today i grabbed my favorite weekly newspaper, citypages to read over lunch.

the cover story is about a self-help seminar offered by a group called vistar.

as i started to read, i realized this was very similar (in fact everything was the same except the name of the group!

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Man...it takes me forever to read anything but i read this entire post, it was so interesting. The psycology of brainwashing and cults and the motivations behind those who create them are fascinating to me. Thankyou for the interesting artical!:)