I have lately had some very good success with my sweetheart too. I layed it on about the UN-WTBTS affair, just briefly, and left it at that. A while after, I came home from work and she hits me with questions about it. Seems that she had gone on the iNet and found out some stuff, and now wanted answers.
I told her to sit down and I asked heer if she REALLY wanted to know "the answers to those questions".... She siad yes! Our relationship took a turn for the better since then and for the most part, now we talk freely. She proposed quitting the Borg. But I know that she's not "there" yet. So I played it safe. We are still "in" for now, but Dateline commeth and I think this will fix her wagon.
Progress progress.