Thank you Arthur.
Katie you're such a nut, I can always count on you for a good giggle.
Ok Update time:
My mother called about 2 weeks ago (after my last post on the subject) and we were chatting. Mother says "Your sister is talking to me now but she hasn't apologized yet." I told Mother not to expect an apology since Suzie believes and knows she did nothing wrong. What did I say that for? Big fight ensued. OK I let that slip because I really hadn't said anything to Mother about the situation between Mother and my Sister and since I hadn't said anything to Mother assumed I agreed with her (which I do not) and I was tired of listening to Mother lie about what my Sister supposedly did to her while Sister was laying in her hospital bed after losing her baby daughter, in pain, with dangerously high blood pressure and minimal eyesight.
I also told Mother that if she was expecting my Brother to call or to be waiting by the phone for her call and forgiveness for whatever he supposedly did - dont bother, my Brother told me he's not playing Mother's games anymore and she can stew in her own juices. If Mother doesnt call my Brother that's fine with him.
There is more to this especially about my Mother and Sister and what my Mother said recently at a family reunion about what my Sister supposedly did (big mess) so now Mother is not talking to any of us again. But really it's more like we're not talking to her.
And the reason why my Sister was talking to Mother was that was all she was willing to give her. Sis hadn't forgiven Mother but she did want to get along for the sake of our family and our Father...but as it stands now that's been shot to hell.
And I don't blame myself, my Sister, or my Brother one bit. You know who I blame.
Josie