im going down to cajun harley today and im not leaving without a bike.. too bad i cant fit 100 lbs of crawfish on it .
Harley, eh yuppie scooter trash....LOL
Get a real bike, use pedal power good for the environment and great exercise!
You could look like this Matt:
Bwhahaaaaaaaa!
Awe, just kidding with you I've had both and much prefer my bicycle to my Harley any day. I did lots of walking and pushing the Harley those bikes are pieces of &^%$! Now if I have to walk it's not so hard to push my bicycle! But enjoy there is nothing like the sound of a Harley for sure, when they actually run........
and the gods rejoiced!!!!
venus winked at mars as she held another of her native sons and said..."told ya so...you ain't seen nothin' yet".
okay, don't know why i can't just say it's daystar's birthday on sunday but i'm just weird that way.
shelley.
have a happy birthday shelley.. youre a kind and caring friend.. just like warm food in the belly,.
youre a lady who transcends.. when someone else is tired,.
Have a good one Shelly!
linda's birthday is on thursday.
but i wanted to start this now, so that trev can print it off on thursday, and take it to her in the hospital.. .
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~~~Have a wonderful Birthday Linda!~~~
~~Much Love to you and Trevor, ~~
onacruse & bikerchic
so someone (who shall remain unnamed .
hogwash, i say!
pure and utter hogwash!!!!!!.
Dang hormones.
LOL maybe you can use some of my wild yam cream?
we are having a boy and can't decide on names.
we want something a little different, not in 'the top 10'.
it also has to be english or german orgin.
Congrats on the baby Jez!
I love the name Jacob, nice english name, in fact Jacob Matthew has a nice sound to it.
so its no surprise to most of the people here, but i stretch my earlobes.. and i just reached sort of a big milestone, for me i guess.. i made it to an inch.. that's 25 mm, for you crazy not americans stuck on the metric system.. and considering the original hole was exactly 1 mm in diameter, i just think its cool i increased the size by 25 times.. now if only i could stretch my bank account.. .
Well it certainly makes a statement Richie.........enjoy being who you are today but remember yesterday sometimes comes back to bite ya in the short curlies.
Eh kids.
from reading people's stories and life experiences i thought i'd poll the members here for some advice.
my inlaws are extremely toxic.
i know, every person says that about their inlaws, but the way they treat their family is absolutely horrible.
bikerwoman is right ya know...
LOL, yeah I know been there done that and I have the crumby T-shirt to prove it!
from reading people's stories and life experiences i thought i'd poll the members here for some advice.
my inlaws are extremely toxic.
i know, every person says that about their inlaws, but the way they treat their family is absolutely horrible.
It seems you and your wife have tried everything aside from some therapy so your wife can understand it's okay to let go in fact it's very important for her mental health to let go of such hurtful people even if they are called parents.
It reminds me of the analogy of the patient telling the Doctor; "Doc when I do this _____ it hurts". Doc takes a look makes sure nothing is wrong and tell patient; "Stop doing that!"
If it hurts stop doing it!
Cut off all contact, change your phone number refuse mail from them and block them from your email addresses take whatever step you need to do to keep them away. Even an animal in the wild protects their family from intruders and harm. Aren't we a step above the animals? Yet we get sucked into the emotional aspects of wanting to please them when we know instinctively there is no pleasing them. There is nothing wrong with your wife, nothing wrong with you, your children, you are not the problem, they are.
The phrase TOXIC means poison, think of them as poison and just don't interact with them, period. I know it's easier said then done but you have each other to lean on which is a good thing. Be creative in ways of thinking of them as toxic, like calling them the toxic parents. It also helps to put a picture of them up with a big red circle and a line drawn through it or at least to think of them mentally that way if the picture is a bit over the top for you. Use your imagination......but help each other through it and think of all the good reasons you are doing it. Make a Mission statement and a list of positive statements to remind you of your mission.
This didn't happen over night and it won't go away over night, it takes work and diligence and the amount of work put into it depends directly on just how important it is for you to have them gone from your life.
Hope this helps and good luck!
my ex fiance who is a hard-core dub.
who would never ever let me touch her in the "naughty spot" because she was so hardcore.
she used and abused me and when she was done after 2 years and after listening to the slander the elders told her about me (about how i would just hump and dump her, im not spiritual, etc.
but I do have to thank her. She was the last straw that made me leave the whoreganization! Yup, that relationship really opened my eyes to the truth about the truth!
Kids....
I'm glad you have gratitude for finally seeing the light and getting out while you are still young enough to actually do something with your life. Now as you've probably heard the best revenge (or answer) is to live a good life.
Happy trails!
