Awe sweetums don't let this sucky religion divide your family any worse than it obviously has after all it's their money and they are doing with it now what they want why not after they die?
I have a friend who always says how much he will inherit when his parents die as if that money will still be there regardless of the funds needing to be used for long-term health care of his elderly parents. It frustrates me because it's not his now and he shouldn't count on it ever being his, his parents worked hard for that money not him!
It's just money, here today gone tomorrow, and can be replaced by the living......I would rather celebrate the life behind the money which cannot be replaced, not the money, but thats just me.
When I confronted her about it, the first thing she said to me was, "Satan must have helped you find this out"... (no actually, it was the clerk of court who to knowledge doesn't go by the alternate name of Satan).
Although someone calling me the Devil's helper might make me a bit cranky!