I disrespect all religions equally.
Crumpet
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is religon-bashing ok, and if yes, when?
by googlemagoogle intoday i read "doubtfully your's" comment on wiccans and i was shocked.
i wanted to reply immediately about tolerance and to respect another religion.
then i thought about him having a sister, smoking pot and presenting herself as pagan giving him some bad impression (prejudice?
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M y Parents replied for non family business! hurray!
by Crumpet inanyone who remembered my earlier posting saying how i had texted my parents thanking them on my birthday for giving me life and telling them that i was happy here is part 2!
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Oh brilliant lisavegas! I'm glad you decided to. if anything this experience proved to me that my parents do love me - and it is hard for them not to know what I'm doing and how I am because of their cult. Maybe my mum had had a glass of wine to celebrate her anniversary and relaxed for that tiny singular moment - God knows I had one my end to celebrate!
Hope you have some success in thawing out your family Lisa
crumpet x
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M y Parents replied for non family business! hurray!
by Crumpet inanyone who remembered my earlier posting saying how i had texted my parents thanking them on my birthday for giving me life and telling them that i was happy here is part 2!
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Thank you all of you - you'd do hard to wipe this smile off my face.
I know its just a crack in the ice, but one crack - well who knows how much that can be hacked at!
But to be fair I haven't ever tried before to be in touch with them in happy mode. I always ring when I am about to kill myslef - so maybe a bit unbalanced am I. I feel unbalanced in my joy.I just approached them under the conditons they expected and I expect everytrime I did it reiterated their feeling of smug slef righteousness - I don't mean that meanly - I was there.
People really do respond the way you you expect them too.
And if I get another few months on here I might even be in a position to show them the truth was lies if they ever get a glip and want to see me ... thats such a huge dream! I would love them to be alive!
The weird thing is - I know they would love me so mch more now than the grumpy girl that the other mums at the primary school gates used to ask about in terms of "who died" until they took me asway from school - one of the reasons that my unhappy face brought reproach on Jehovah's name.
I wish everyone would try - because I've been so long away from my mum and dad and if they could respond it means there are little mouseholes in.
Would you give it a go - any of you? The love offensive?
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M y Parents replied for non family business! hurray!
by Crumpet inanyone who remembered my earlier posting saying how i had texted my parents thanking them on my birthday for giving me life and telling them that i was happy here is part 2!
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Talesin - i thought you were a girl!
crumpet of the long lost daddy class
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M y Parents replied for non family business! hurray!
by Crumpet inanyone who remembered my earlier posting saying how i had texted my parents thanking them on my birthday for giving me life and telling them that i was happy here is part 2!
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It gets better! I can hardly type just now!
Whilst I was thinking of how I should respond my phone buzzed.
My mum sent me the first communication in 3 years and the second in 7 years. I'm so excited I coulod be sick - you cvan't know what this means to me! I wish I could swear!
The message at 10.41pm went - ohashit I am weeping now - "Thanks for your message. We went for a meal at lunch, although we went to see Riverdance recently to celebrate which dad enjoyed for the music and I enjoyed the dancing. Luv Dad&mum"
The way it is phrased its obvious my mum typed it - I cannot believe this is happening to me and this has to be the best thing in so many years. I can't say - I am so amazed and upset.
I owe this to the australian family on here whose daughter persisted with love with her parents.
I never ever dreamt my mummy would ever speak to me in anyway ever again. oh god
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M y Parents replied for non family business! hurray!
by Crumpet inanyone who remembered my earlier posting saying how i had texted my parents thanking them on my birthday for giving me life and telling them that i was happy here is part 2!
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Thank you chaps! Should I reply or just leave it a while? Its very new having that kind of warmth. So on the one hand I don't want it to go cold but neither do I want to wear it out if you know what I mean?
I really want to text back but I kind of sense it would not be acceptable? oh what to do!
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M y Parents replied for non family business! hurray!
by Crumpet inanyone who remembered my earlier posting saying how i had texted my parents thanking them on my birthday for giving me life and telling them that i was happy here is part 2!
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Thank you chaps! Should I reply or just leave it a while? Its very new having that kind of warmth. So on the one hand I don't want it to go cold but neither do I want to wear it out if you know what I mean?
I really want to text back but I kind of sense it would not be acceptable? oh what to do!
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M y Parents replied for non family business! hurray!
by Crumpet inanyone who remembered my earlier posting saying how i had texted my parents thanking them on my birthday for giving me life and telling them that i was happy here is part 2!
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It is their wedding aniversary today - which some of you remember was more important than anything except the District Convention or the Memorial. At least that is how it was in my family.
Anyway my horrible pc keeps cutting out and I wanted to post a topic asking you guys what I should say in wishing them Happy Anniversary - it must be their 32nd.
So whilst I waited for the PC to reboot I texted anyway and this is what i said bearing in mind I only get so many letters per text:
"Hiya Mum and Dad, I hope its okay, I waited until the meeting would be over. Just wanted to wish you both a very happy anniversary and lots of love from me. All my love and thinking hapily of steak, mushrooms (we had a family tradition of us all having our fave meal and giving each other presents - a lot lile christmas) and Baileys."
And within 5 minutes I got a reply !
I was so amazed - because I expected no reply at all, especially after I texted them on my 30th birthday a few days ago (discussed on another thread).
My dad's reply
"Ta very much for both texts (yes and my birthday one yippeee) and your lovely card - we appreciated it very much. Love mum and dad"
I am so happy - that has to be the nicest response I have had in years and years. I know it means nothing but it means hurdles loads from me - they were nice to me - NOT ON URGENT FAMILY BUSINESS.
Anyway I wanted to share this!
crumpet xxx
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M y Parents replied for non family business! hurray!
by Crumpet inanyone who remembered my earlier posting saying how i had texted my parents thanking them on my birthday for giving me life and telling them that i was happy here is part 2!
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Anyone who remembered my earlier posting saying how I had texted my parents thanking them on my birthday for giving me life and telling them that I was happy here is part 2!
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When the cats away - how do you meeces play?
by Crumpet inwhen your other half is out of town, or you just have the luxury of being alone, what is your favourite way of passing the time?
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The volume of our music seems to be thing that units our genders in this instance. Do we all have such apalling musical taste that our partners can't abide it? hehe
Nancy what do you listen to when the other half goes out?
and diamond blue what is dirty beer as in
either that or the lads are round with dirty beer, curry and GTA San Andreas.
and forget san andreas - do you have Doom 3 ordered for tomorrow?