Posts by Etude

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Who is the Faithful and Discrete Slave?

by Etude in

recently, i've had memories about that topic, which i had suppressed for a long time.

my original question came up when i encountered a few members of the "anointed" in my congregation (we're talking almost 30 years ago).. there was one sister who partook of the "emblems" who had come from cuba.

i learned from her that her health was frail because she had smuggled some expensive jewelry in a condom and stuck it up her colon.

Etude

M.J.:

Thanks for the references. They make it very clear that the Society has maneuvered the GB as being a group within a group, representing the FDS, all who are the 144,000. Of course, that includes individuals who lived in the first century. This will come back to bite them. Not just their manipulation of the facts about an "early governing body", but the fact that, in years to come, the number of 144,000 will increase or at least not diminish. That will force them to change their explanations. Hopefully and because of improved access to information via technology, it will be less difficult to hide.

The thing I get from their descriptions you cited is that if the GB represents the FDS, how do the members of the FDS who are not of the GB fulfill their role as "providing spiritual nourishment at the proper time"? The example I gave in my original post to illustrate those "anointed" who are marginal to the operation of the Society begs the question of how many of this class actually fulfill their role. As far as I can see, they do nothing, except those in the GB. I would hope that most Witnesses could see that as well, simply by thinking about it.

Realistically though, the fact that I thought about this issue when I was still a practicing Witness and managed to shove it aside should be indicative of what it is that they do that allowed me to gloss over it. I just can't put my finger on it.

Etude.

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Relationship??

by penton in

after meeting a wonderful fella who also is jw.

i've never felt this way about anyone before in my life.

the only thing is i don't know if its possible for us to have a stable relationship, as i am r.c, not actually i'm irish roman catholic which is a little bit "stricter".

Etude

Penton:

I'm not going to advise you one way or another. However, I can pose some scenarios that may help you decide:

Firstly, along the lines of what ButtLight said, you can ask him if in the future, he would leave you for the Organization if he had to make a choice. That should tell you something. Of course, that depends on his motives for wanting to marry you in the first place. I'm not talking about whether he loves you or not. I'm considering, as you should, what's on his mind. As you've learned here, JWs are strongly discouraged from marrying outside the faith. So, maybe he hopes that he'll bring you in eventually and shed the stigma later on. That's when your marriage can go like a ripe avocado hitting the ground, SPLAT!

On the other hand, his faith may be wavering and he's looking for an excuse to leave or perhaps he doesn't care what happens to him because he cares more about you. Either way, some people experience a lot of guilt when they leave and end up returning. In that case, the first scenario I painted may occur and he may leave you because he needs to get back into the religion and you don't. Here is a good example: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/7/46758/1.ashx and http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/53595/1.ashx

What you need is what every couple contemplating marriage needs: TALK EVERYTHING OUT FIRST BEFORE GETTING MARRIED. You don't want to wait until you have children. I learned about an interfaith marriage (Christian and Jewish) that made a very good couple and were very happy until they had a child. The issue came up as to what faith they were going to raise the child and the disagreement ended their marriage. I guess each didn't think about it because they assumed that the kid's faith would be their own.

And oh, forgive me if I'm being too forward, but you stated that you're Irish Catholic. Well, I presume that the picture of a good Catholic girl applies to you and you haven't "done the deed" with him. If that were the case, you must realize that he can be expelled from the Organization, it would be announced at the meeting and he would be shunned. That can be devastating for a person unless he or she is ready to go.

Discuss everything. Assume nothing. Know his stake in the relationship. Learn about the JWs so that you can talk to him intelligently.

Etude.

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Who all here was personally helped by JWD

by Ticker in

i was and i am ever thankful to this board and all the wonderful members on it that have contributed to my freedom.

thankyou all so much and i think i might be becoming a jwd addict.

i love this board it is so helpful.

Etude

It had been more than 20 years since I had started drifting from the WTS (I think I was DFd in 1982 or 83) and I only joined the forum in 2003. So, I had to face the long road back all by myself, even to the point of deciding whether or not I still believed in God. The loneliness was crushing, the guilt too much to bear and the separation from family and friends devastating. I came to terms with all that before finding this forum. Take Solis, Ticker, about being confused. Listen to your inner voice and trust your feelings. Be open-minded and scrutinize everything. Sometimes the journey is more important than the destination. You'll find an answer. Even if the answer is: "I don't know" or "I'm not sure", you can have some comfort in that you've explored the avenues available to you.

So, my ideas and opinions were already formed when I came to this forum. But, YES, I was helped here. First of all, it felt good to be reassured that I was not alone. Even if I've dealt with my issues regarding the WTS, I couldn't speak to anyone I know about what it was like, not even to my wife. It just didn't feel satisfactory trying to explain what I went through to someone who has no clue of the inner workings of the Jehovah's Witnesses. Here, I have found a sense of acceptance by virtue of our common experience. I've also learned a lot. I have found topics that I didn't care to examine before, which are now important to me because they have cemented in fact the deviousness of the cult that is the Jehovah's Witnesses, in doctrine, but in particular in emotional ruthlessness.

I've been touched by your stories and by your kind comments of support. I haven't made any friends yet, but look forward to it. I stopped posting for about a year (this is a very time-consuming endeavor for me), but hope I will always be in some sort of contact with this forum as long as it's available. I don't know who maintains it, but I do know that it must be laborious task. My hat is off to you people. This forum could be a giant, evolving time-capsule. Thirty or even fifty years from now, even if the WTBTS is no longer around (who knows), I hope this forum is still available to everyone and anyone to look back on and get a sense of how people felt and to read the plethora of individual stories, vignettes of totally different lives with one common thread. Come to think of it, it could make one hell of a book!

I've laughed my ass off; I've been angy at reading the injustices committed toward individuals; I've been saddened by the pain some of you have suffered. I don't know too many other places where such a thing can occur all at the same time. Thank you all and thank you Ticker for bringing it up.

Etude.

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English oral presentation: what are jw's basic beliefs?

by Evanescence in

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my english teacher said that we are going to be doing oral presentations on anything we want.

my english teacher religious as well and she knows that i am into religion and that i should do an oral presentation on a religion.. well i know a lot about jehovah's witnesses so i thought i might to an oral presentation on them!

so to make things easier can you help me a bit and tell me their basic doctrines like the 144,000 and the jesus on the stake (and why they believe this would help as well).

Etude

Evanescence:

I realize that you want information from a positive JW point of view. However, I just got off a thread that proved quite interesting in at least describing their concept of the 144,000. Take a look (http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/12/95142/1.ashx).

Etude.

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Who is the Faithful and Discrete Slave?

by Etude in

recently, i've had memories about that topic, which i had suppressed for a long time.

my original question came up when i encountered a few members of the "anointed" in my congregation (we're talking almost 30 years ago).. there was one sister who partook of the "emblems" who had come from cuba.

i learned from her that her health was frail because she had smuggled some expensive jewelry in a condom and stuck it up her colon.

Etude

Agreed. Thinking about the FDS or the 144,000 does not answer the question for me about, not what they do, but who they are. I know they are not anywhere in the vicinity of Brooklyn Heights or any other place I know. As with many other Biblical issues, it's not a huge concern in my life because some things just resist answers.

As to the Organization, I still can't get over the mindset. How is it that people can gloss over an issue like this, not ask the questions I asked and continue as if nothing's happened? I guess I was interested in the psychology of it all. I still have family embedded in the JW. And, as smart and wrong as they are, I'd like to hit them with it some day.

Etude.

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Who is the Faithful and Discrete Slave?

by Etude in

recently, i've had memories about that topic, which i had suppressed for a long time.

my original question came up when i encountered a few members of the "anointed" in my congregation (we're talking almost 30 years ago).. there was one sister who partook of the "emblems" who had come from cuba.

i learned from her that her health was frail because she had smuggled some expensive jewelry in a condom and stuck it up her colon.

Etude

Greendawn:

What I meant when I said SOME were assigned duties (anointed or not), I was indicating that it is the GB that's calling the shots, not the 144,000 or the FDS. If one of the "anointed" I knew in my congregation (except for Ray Franz) decided to write an article for the Watchtower or even a book, I doubt that the GB or whoever is in charge of clearing the material would accept it for publication simply because it came from an "anointed", who is after all a priest of Christ. It would have to be cleared by the GB and the individual would have to be at least talented enough to write well and toe their line.

"How do we distinguish the annointed anyway with what criteria, how do the GB know fopr sure that they are such?"

It would be nice to say that the answer to your question would best be provided by the WTBTS or someone in the GB. However, from my past experience with them, I can tell you that any kind of answer on this subject has as much chance as Armageddon happening in 1975. If anything, they (someone at the Service Desk) will refer you to some of their publication as an explanation and leave you exactly were you are, in the fog. I don't think the GB cares who is anointed or not up to the degree that it may pose a problem for them if the numbers go up and that group becomes another "Great Crowd". They would care if the individual is "known" and has been around long enough to be a contender for a seat on the GB, which consists only of anointed or members of the 144,000. That is politics as usual and has nothing to do with the Bible. I think it's fitting that, the way things stand, they have a "clause" for deniability if an "anointed" came out speaking against them. They would simply say that the individual was not anointed in the first place and mistakenly partook of the emblems. That's why they emphasize that it's a very personal thing between that individual and Jehovah to claim membership in the anointed class. Essentially, there is no way to determine their "calling" and therefore there are no rites or formal acknowledgments for those individuals in order to confirm their claims, other than their explicit participation of the "emblems" each year during the Memorial.

Regardless of who runs what, my point of contention is that they define a class (144,000, anointed, Faithful and Discrete Slave), which by virtue of it's members, is not what they claim in the first place. I think that's transparent enough, yet somehow it never clearly surfaced in my mind when I was associated with them. I marvel at why and how current Witnesses don't think about that.

Etude.

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Who is the Faithful and Discrete Slave?

by Etude in

recently, i've had memories about that topic, which i had suppressed for a long time.

my original question came up when i encountered a few members of the "anointed" in my congregation (we're talking almost 30 years ago).. there was one sister who partook of the "emblems" who had come from cuba.

i learned from her that her health was frail because she had smuggled some expensive jewelry in a condom and stuck it up her colon.

Etude

Greendawn:

I can say that most the ones I knew, were not "anointed". Perhaps what I should clarify is that some who "provided nourishment" or wrote literature for the flock were anointed, like Ray and Fred Franz, but did not technically and exclusively work for the Writing Department. I suppose if a member of the GB wanted to write something, anything, he just did it and passed it on to the writing staff editor. In other cases, anyone, even an "anointed" one could be commissioned to write something.by the GB. If it worked as I put it here, that further erodes the idea that it's the FDS that provides nourishment.

I remember when a brother in our hall "came out" as anointed. We saw him take eat and drink. I remember a conversation with him in which he explained how he "knew" he was one. I think he'd only been associated with he Witnesses about 5 years. Naturally, I had misgivings about this dude. I found out later that he was DFd after the Franz ordeal along with (or around the time) Rene Vazquez was hung out to dry. I knew and realized that the Society simply counted them (since it was diligently reported by the congregation) and that was the end of that. At the same time, I realized that if any of them (the anointed) were asked to do something by the GB or was requested to serve in a special capacity, it was due to their personal ability or connections to those in the "hub" and not due to their "priestly" rank. Hey, that's the way everything worked at Bethel anyway.

Etude.

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Who is the Faithful and Discrete Slave?

by Etude in

recently, i've had memories about that topic, which i had suppressed for a long time.

my original question came up when i encountered a few members of the "anointed" in my congregation (we're talking almost 30 years ago).. there was one sister who partook of the "emblems" who had come from cuba.

i learned from her that her health was frail because she had smuggled some expensive jewelry in a condom and stuck it up her colon.

Etude

G Money:

I don't think I'm mistaken, although I could be wrong. My understanding is that those that are of the anointed class, demonstrated by their partaking of the "emblems" are the "Faithful and Discrete Slave":

"Witnesses of Jehovah understand that the "slave" is comprised of all anointed Christians as a group on earth at any given time during the 19 centuries since Pentecost." Watchtower of March 1, 1981

Since only the 144,000 are the "anointed" that would make them all one and the same ("Reasoning from the Scriptures", p. 166). As far as I can remember, the "slave" class was the 144,000. That may have changed in the years that I've been gone from the Organization. And of course, we know that at one time, that's all there was, until they received "new understanding" and found the "Great Crowd". Even if the WTBTS was not equating the "Faithful and Discrete Slave" class with the 144,000, the numerical group is described by them as a "priestly class". There was nothing "priestly" about many of the "anointed" I knew in that they didn't do anything special to mark them as such.

Of course, I can see now (and even then) how someone could delude him or her self into thinking he/she was of the anointed class. It's not unlike what some "Born Again" Christians experience (a kind of rapture) that makes them praise Jesus. I remember one year when their numbers went up when they should have been dying down. They had to come out with an article about it. So, am I confused or is it clear that the 144,000 are the anointed and the "slave" class? If so, what the heck are these other people who don't write literature and are rather marginal in the congregations do to make them part of a "priestly" class? Is the argument good enough to show the holes in the WTBTS teachings?

Etude.

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Who is the Faithful and Discrete Slave?

by Etude in

recently, i've had memories about that topic, which i had suppressed for a long time.

my original question came up when i encountered a few members of the "anointed" in my congregation (we're talking almost 30 years ago).. there was one sister who partook of the "emblems" who had come from cuba.

i learned from her that her health was frail because she had smuggled some expensive jewelry in a condom and stuck it up her colon.

Etude

Recently, I've had memories about that topic, which I had suppressed for a long time. My original question came up when I encountered a few members of the "anointed" in my congregation (we're talking almost 30 years ago).

There was one sister who partook of the "emblems" who had come from Cuba. I learned from her that her health was frail because she had smuggled some expensive jewelry in a condom and stuck it up her colon. I guess that trying to escape the Castro regime didn't mean you had to be totally destitute. Well, the plan apparently had deleterious effects on her caused some permanent damage.

I learned this because she was staying at our house in Queens, N.Y. when she had no other place to go. I don't remember the reason why she had to leave where she was. Eventually, I don't remember if she just moved away or was asked her to leave by my parents -- Yes, there were problems. It wasn't a big to-do (asking an anointed to leave our house) because my dad, although sympathetic, was not a Witness and, as I recall, she was not the most endearing person. Anyway, I thought about her then and the fact that she was of the "anointed" and I couldn't help but think: "What is her function as a member of the "Faithful and Discrete Slave"?

According to the WT literature, that class "provides nourishment at the proper time" for Jehovah's people. I didn't see her doing that. I knew at least three "anointed" in my congregations. And, except for Ray Franz (he attended at least 2 congregations that I also attended) I didn't know that the others I was acquainted with did anything of significance for the flock. Later, when I ended up living in Bethel, I noticed that there were a lot of individuals in the writing department who wrote and/or managed the "food" publication for "Jehovah's people". What I gathered was that the "anointed" and the "Faithful and Discrete Slave" class did not "map" one-to-one.

It's such an obvious thing to me that I know I must have received some sort of explanation to help me suppress that blatant disparity. I don't remember what it was. I suppose that most dedicated JWs deal with that in their own way. How did any of you here reconcile that discrepancy if you faced it? I suppose that by way of an excuse, I must say that their spell on me was complete.

Etude

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How I got out of JWs, they showed me the way!

by out of the box in

i have been writing 'my story' in bits and pieces here.

it was pouring out, one of the kids sick, jw husband wasn't going.

i got in the car (this little hatch-back car was a loaner from the garage because our larger car was being repaired) i was stopped at a stop sign and i was on time for the meeting.. i heard something and turned in time to see something coming at me fast.

Etude

out of the box:

That's an amazing story. Do you ever wonder, had you not suffered such adversities, whether you would have proven you metle? Do you think you would have accomplished as much, in particular your significant triumph of persistence to just get better? I think that the average person would have given up or would have become dependent on others for help.

Etude.