I have known more than one Witness who claimed to have lived their life in constant prayer to God and saw his hand in every little thing . When little things went wrong it was “what is Jehovah teaching me here? “ . However most of us were not like that.
So why do some seem to get a lot of help from their congregation and others not ?
I believe it is down to personality and, the more you give ,the more you receive, like in any community. Sisters that were always involved, always willing to help and being interested in others will receive help from their many friends. Those of us more of a quiet nature , keeping to ourselves… well , no one notices if we are not there and are less minded to put themselves out for us. That’s human nature.
A Christian congregation is supposed to be better than that , offering a hand to all members regardless… but , you know how it is…..