Well, it seems to be a matter of a congregation lottery , as to where you are and how they view it.
My brother in law’s sister , so a sort of relative, lived in the North of England . Backin the day she courted and married a “worldly “ man . He was tolerant of her faith and they lived , had children and by now may be dead. I have lost touch.
She remained in the congregation and enjoyed a good relationship with JW family….
Another sister I knew originally divorced her husband from the world .Eventually she remarried a JW brother but later on he died. She then surprised everyone by remarrying husband No. 1 . I guess she was counselled but remained a sister in good standing.
So it is all a bit of hit or miss, depending on your local B of E.