For a while , I was PIMO , while I was organising an exit that would not cost me my wife and home. That was 20 years ago and my home life is better than ever was when I was in.
During that time it was terrible. I felt a hypocrite and everyone despises a hypocrite. I could not have kept it up for long . I tried hard to help her see the “truth about the truth “ but it was no good . Eventually we agreed to differ and settled down .