If your wife is the patient, surely it is up to her to decide what she tells him. If it were me in your position I would willingly stand up to him and tell to go…… if my wife was unhappy about him . You have to remember that many dubs view it as loving care from a “shepherd “.
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Hot sht hospital liaison
by road to nowhere inwife in.
bro high opinion of self stopped.
he is part of hlc, but was alone.
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At what point, does one become apostate to the religion of Jehovah's Witnesses?
by Vanderhoven7 inat what point does a jehovah’s witness cease to be a jehovah’s witness?
what if a witness doesn't believe some of the official teachings of the governing body but remains silent on these subjects to avoid being disfellowshipped?
is he or she an apostate to the faith?
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BluesBrother
What is an apostate? When his Elders judge him so.
If you are lucky and have got a more reasonable man who doesn’t want to do a JC anyway, you may get away with questioning the beliefs , if you do so politely.
Another Bof E may take a dim view of your failure to toe the line and see you as a danger to the cong. Of course if you have the sort of dub family that rat you out and complain about what you say at home - you are done for…..
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Anthony Morris the III has been FOUND
by Terry innote: photos can be found on the blue envelope channelhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-nakezkhqbmtony and susan morris are living in lumberton, north carolina.
a real estate document on the robeson county website is filed:.
the religious order of jehovah's witnesses has provided a "life estate" for them.they can live in this townhouse until they are deceased or choose to move away and in either case the ownership becomes entirely the property of jehovah's witnesses.
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BluesBrother
This guy’s approach is more reasonable and gives background info so I can believe him.
This would show that AM3 is still in good standing although not on the GB . Perhaps there was was a need in that cong. or maybe he requested it ? Anyway ,God help the dubs in Lumberton, I don’t envy them having him among them.
Incidentally that is a nice house , If it were around this part of the U.K. it could cost double what they paid.
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A Press Conference of Hate: False Accusations of Sexual Abuse Against the Jehovah’s Witnesses 7~24~23
by Tahoe in.
https://bitterwinter.org/a-press-conference-of-hate-false-accusations-of-sexual-abuse-against-the-jehovahs-witnesses/.
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BluesBrother
Better than? Worse than ? .......Who can really say?
It seems very irresponsible to me to make such statements. Of course figures can be manipulated to show what you want . Somebody once spoke of “ Lies, Damned Lies and statistics “
I don’t care that the Catholic Church fares better or worse in a league table of depravity . I know that both organisations claim to represent God On Earth and both fail miserably.
Just bring the perpetrators to Court and care for the victims... that’s all
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Did anyone really enjoy assemblies?
by SydBarrett inthe twickenham post made me think of this.
i have a few jw family members on facebook and being summertime, their pics of the convention have shown up in my fb feed.
along with their comments about "i wished it would never end" or "what a glorious weekend".
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BluesBrother
Yes.. I did... call me a nerd ( probably right) but there were times when I was really motivated as a dub. Some of the old time speakers were really good at it and had a freedom that you don’t see today . They could really motivate. At trend , At Twickenham with a huge crowd singing “ We Thank You Jehovah “ .... brought tears to the eyes.
The whole experience was better too, with food service and all.
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Getting Fed at Assemblies and Camping Around the Stadium
by mikronboy inthis was the 1963 assembly at twickenham.
i recall the wt deciding no more camping after this due to "immorality" having taken place.. https://youtu.be/lhcl-13dyne.
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BluesBrother
I bet I was there! I can remember more than one large convention at the old Twickenham before it was rebuilt. Yes we had the large food catering with dinners on trays . It was fun ,as I recall.
I thought they had camping some time after that . I definitely slept in a large tent with a lot of others actually in the grounds of the stadium. I heard of off site camping from others later on too.
Happy days , when conventions were fun!
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Should a person die for their religious BELIEFS?
by Fisherman inin ancient israel many of the prophets were killed as a result of their religious assignments —from god.
even soldiers were sent out to fight against idolatrous “uncircumcised” and logically some died for example jonathan, the son of king saul.
these soldiers were said to be fighting the wars of jehovah and there was no miraculous salvation for everybody all of the time.
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BluesBrother
In a decent world they should never have to chose between faith or life .
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Watching the show
by Teddnzo ini’m new to apostate stuff but have gone deep down a few rabbit holes of late so want to see both sides to everything .
im going to a congregation but am viewed as a bit of a black sheep because i question lots of things but not enough to cause too much trouble.. i’m intrigued watching the show.
in my heart i’m pretty sure the governing body are fakes and charlatans.. the entire thing is a big con game.
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BluesBrother
Welcome Ted... 2 simple questions that did it for me once I started to really think.
1) They stick to the key belief that the last days began in 1914 , Christ’s heavenly “presence”. Jesus said all in one generation. That was 109 years ago ! ... Come on, there is something wrong there.. Nb I don’t buy their definition of a generation either, get them to explain it to you.
2) They maintain that only baptised practicing JWs will survive Armageddon.... When you think about it, that is religious genocide ! Did Jesus teach that? The God I know would never do that .
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Only one weekly meeting?
by mikeflood innew wt october 2023....first an article remembering 1923....they make changes, the had a "prayer, praise and testimony weekly meeting".. after an study article about obey, specially paragraph 18.. i have a wild guess, next year, just one weekly meeting for the borg..
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BluesBrother
If they abandoned The midweek meeting, how would they push the flock to grow out in service?
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I well remember the Service Chart at the front of theHall. It was a whopper! at least 6ft tall for all to see. Notice that we had quotas rather than goals to achieve. If you failed to report 10 hours in a month, there was something wrong. We also had quotas for placements so you were expected to leave 10 magazines with people, for money , as well. .. Happy days ? I think not.
We always moaned about Convention food . But we moaned even more when they took it away.... . Mind you if you volunteered in food service, that was good fun !