Carla,
I've read your posts for a long time. I don't aways comment.
This is a really personal question and you can obviously choose to ignore it, but have you ever considered separation or divorce? What keeps you and your husband together?
i hear you guys saying that often.
i find it frustrating because mine sure hasn't!
maybe it is all the jw's who have ubm's who do most of the door to door now?
Carla,
I've read your posts for a long time. I don't aways comment.
This is a really personal question and you can obviously choose to ignore it, but have you ever considered separation or divorce? What keeps you and your husband together?
i posted this on another thread but it really got me thinking about how the wts could really do this:.
the wts needs to stop spending so much cash.. they have real estate but once sold and the proceeds used it offers no more value.. they need to simplify, simplify, simplify (and isn't that the mantra they recite each time they make an organizational change?).
they could: push more and more printing to the individual publishers in order to cut down on printing costs (this may only apply to developed countries but it still would result in significant savings).
I think they'll eventually push down as much printing as possible to the individual publishers or congregations.
This would include KMs and study articles of the WT.
Loyal dubs will spend whatever it takes to stay in the loop with the WTS.
Although they they won't contribute much to a faceless WTS they will pay to visit bethel or give the CO money directly or pay for food to help a local family out or pay for gasoline to attend meetings/service - they'll pay for ink cartridges.
It's all tied to salvation. Having literature is tied to salvation - anonymous contributions is not.
it looks like the wt is running out of money fast.
few weeks ago we had the co visit and he told us in the ms and elders meeting that he had never seen a letter from the gb like this one, but then he went ahead and read it.
the letter basically said: "the contributions are down and there is more people in the congregation.
I started a new topic with my above post:
i posted this on another thread but it really got me thinking about how the wts could really do this:.
the wts needs to stop spending so much cash.. they have real estate but once sold and the proceeds used it offers no more value.. they need to simplify, simplify, simplify (and isn't that the mantra they recite each time they make an organizational change?).
they could: push more and more printing to the individual publishers in order to cut down on printing costs (this may only apply to developed countries but it still would result in significant savings).
I posted this on another thread but it really got me thinking about how the WTS could really do this:
What if:
The WTS needs to stop spending so much cash.
They have real estate but once sold and the proceeds used it offers no more value.
They need to simplify, simplify, simplify (and isn't that the mantra they recite each time they make an organizational change?)
They could: push more and more printing to the individual publishers in order to cut down on printing costs (this may only apply to developed countries but it still would result in significant savings). By having each publisher or congregation print it's own literature on a regular color printer major savings could be had. This would be in conjunction with offering more tracts and brochures in the ministry and less books.
With less printing being done by the WTS they could have less facilities, manpower, expenses. However, there is more to this.
As they decentralize the printing work they could focus on the work of management. Management work doesn't necessarily have to be done by in-house live in help. By expanding the commuter bethelite program they could have tons of qualified dubs (many would move from all over the country if necessary) who would live in their own home and care for their own expenses (like a pioneer) but would work full-time (or part-time) for the WTS.
Imagine the savings the WTS would have! Less live-in help means less laundry, food, cleaning, utilities, etc etc.
This could all be done by selling off the remaining Brooklyn properties and relocating to Patterson. Cheaper housing can be found near Patterson for the commuter bethelite program that would be expanded.
it looks like the wt is running out of money fast.
few weeks ago we had the co visit and he told us in the ms and elders meeting that he had never seen a letter from the gb like this one, but then he went ahead and read it.
the letter basically said: "the contributions are down and there is more people in the congregation.
The WTS has a lot of real estate money but it's all tied up in the property. They do sell properties to get a cash infusion but they can only do that on a limited basis.
They need liquid cash and the best place for them to get it is from the individual dubs around the world.
Perhaps we will see the WTS decentralize the headquarters staff even more. Less brick and mortar and more online technology.
This could go hand in hand with online literature that the dubs print off for themselves. That would push printing costs waaaaaaaaay down.
If they only needed white collar office space, they could also get rid of the need to house people full-time. Perhaps expanding the commuter bethelite program where you live nearby and commuter to bethel for work each day. They could begin a slow shift to regular 40 hour a week office workers (qualified dubs only) from the live-in bethelites that we've all come to know.
i hear you guys saying that often.
i find it frustrating because mine sure hasn't!
maybe it is all the jw's who have ubm's who do most of the door to door now?
Hey Carla,
I don't have a specific answer regarding your BM (get it, bowel movement or believing mate?) hahahaha. Anyway, I digress.
I've seen a lot of slacking off in the FS in my area.
However, a witness with an unbelieving mate often times feels it necessary to put on a strong front. In fact they are encourage to do so by the congregation. Remember, they hear a lot about how you, the unbelieving mate, can be won without a word.
I'm in a somewhat different boat. My wife knows I know the truth and have rejected it. She doesn't try to win me without a word because I've rejected the truth. But, your husband regardless of what you've said regarding the truth is still intent on showing you how great it is. - probably (imho)
Does your husband complain about the congregation? any of the friends at the hall? Do you get invited to get togethers? Does he leave literature around for you to accidentally find? Does he smile and talk about how great he feels or how happy he is - in relation to the truth? These would all be things a believing mate would do in order to win you over without a word.
So, where others may see a lessening of FS by mates or witness friends you may not see that same trend in your household.
the jw's just called my job.
my boss answered the phone and she said that they were like, id like to share a scripture with you, read the scripture and was like now if you grab your bible, and she was like i dont have a bible and they said well, when someone comes by for a talk, and she was like, you cannot come here, this is a place of business.. .
lmao.
I posted this on another thread but thought it might fit here as well:
My wife has told me that fewer people want to drive in service and that several people are carpooling to the DC and CA now. Everyone is trying to figure out how to do more with less.
The dubs have done phone and letter witnessing for years. But, in most places it always carried a laziness stigma (sorry for any who did it for real health reasons but the friends have never really respected phone and letter writing). Now, it is becoming much more mainstream.
Also, my wife told me that many more are doing informal witnessing while they're out doing errands.
She sees less and less people at the meeting for field service but everyone is still getting their time in - which means they are either liars or they're doing alternative forms of witnessing.
Just my news from the front line (well, one person back from the front line).
could gentile christians eat idol meat or what?.
acts 15 says avoid things polluted by idols.. 1 cor.
8 says it's ok but for the sake of others forego it.. 1 cor.
I wanted to bring this back up to the top for all the newbies.
This thread started out discussing Idol Meat and turned into a deep discussion on the WTS blood doctrine and a logical way to refute it.
i see some posters still aren't 100% sure that the jehovah's witness religion might not be "the truth"....was there a moment when things became very clear for you regarding this religion?.
do you still think, maybe----jws aren't all that bad??
?.
Not the truth?? what are you talking about??? say it isn't so, please, just say it isn't so.
It took me some time to really believe it wasn't the truth. I was scared about being destroyed for a long time. This board and Ray Franz's books really helped me get over the hump of belief.
has any one heard the word s or somthing like them?
"we can take my car but my tank is empty.
so if you want to ride in the jw mobile all riders need to chip in.
My wife has told me that fewer people want to drive in service and that several people are carpooling to the DC and CA now. Everyone is trying to figure out how to do more with less.
The dubs have done phone and letter witnessing for years. But, in most places it always carried a laziness stigma (sorry for any who did it for real health reasons but the friends have never really respected phone and letter writing). Now, it is becoming much more mainstream.
Also, my wife told me that many more are doing informal witnessing while they're out doing errands.
She sees less and less people at the meeting for field service but everyone is still getting their time in - which means they are either liars or they're doing alternative forms of witnessing.
Just my news from the front line (well, one person back from the front line).