Whoa West 70, calm down all she did was respond to your post. Her preferences in life and choice of religion don't warrant your attack on her.
So because you say Christians are forgiven does that mean they can go around and say whatever they'd like and God just forgives them automatically? Wow Carte Blanche.
You're question Do Some JW Elders Secretly Consider It Possible That They Are Wrong? Have you ever consider you may be wrong?
No I don't think that God smoked the elder who was going to make the annoucement. If that was the case He would have to protect everyone that way. He would have had to smoke the child molester in his tracks before he or she caused unrepairable damage to the young child. He would have to kill the murderer before the murderer kills the father of three who rely on him for support. It just doesn't work like that.
Think about it WWJD. Would he go around calling someone names and insulting them.. because hey He is God's son and He is forgiven?
Now go apologize.