you sound like my 1st girlfriend,she was a none jw,and my family was full blown brainwashed.I was on the outskirts of being a jw.I loved this girl with all my heart.I tried to both do the right thing for god{not have sex of any kind,and try to be chaperoned}My mom and congo elders did thier best to destroy our relationship.If your man starts leaning toward getting you to believe jw shit,I advise you to get out clean.Tell him unless he forgets all that crap doctrine,you can't see him anymore.I put that girl through hell,because of my anger towards my parents,the treligion ,and the world.We are still good friends now,but it will never be the same.Good luck.
STP--------p.s.,I'm 23 ,so this all happened within the last 6-7 years.