I love this. Myself and one of my sisters left before our other sister. I had not been to meetings in 1 1/2 years and Jody had not been in three years. Neither of us claimed to be witnesses but were not disfellowshipped. The elders in my sister's cong, about 70 miles away, heard from my Witness aunt that Jody and I were celebrating holidays and that I was gay. So they go to my other sister, Kay, and counsel her for associating with us, advise her that we are both guilty of apostasy and ask her to report any wrongdoing she knew of. She told them that if they wanted to know anything about us they could ask us themselves. Without two witness, Jody and I never were called before a committe and neither have been df'd. My oldest sister has since left also...she even attends church... so HAHA nosy elders!!