Posts by Sparkplug

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what's yo fantasy?!

by kittyeatzjdubs in

jw
friends

so me and my boyfriend were discussing this last night and i wanted to get y'alls opinion.

when the org crumbles and falls how do you see it happening?

i like this idea: the fbi raids bethel, finds a bunch of illegal stuff (money laundering, list of known and active pedophiles, etc.

what's yo fantasy?!

by kittyeatzjdubs in

jw
friends

so me and my boyfriend were discussing this last night and i wanted to get y'alls opinion.

when the org crumbles and falls how do you see it happening?

i like this idea: the fbi raids bethel, finds a bunch of illegal stuff (money laundering, list of known and active pedophiles, etc.

what's yo fantasy?!

by kittyeatzjdubs in

jw
friends

so me and my boyfriend were discussing this last night and i wanted to get y'alls opinion.

when the org crumbles and falls how do you see it happening?

i like this idea: the fbi raids bethel, finds a bunch of illegal stuff (money laundering, list of known and active pedophiles, etc.

Sparkplug

I kind of want GBL to dress in Drag and do the hulla!!

19

Was Anyone Reinstated But Felt Marked?

by love2Bworldly in

jw
friends

just wondering if any of you experienced what i did years ago when i was reinstated.

although people were excited about my reinstatement and said things like "welcome home", i could tell when i would see people i used to be close to--that they still treated me differently, almost like i had a disease or something.

maybe it's because i was married to a non-jw and had a baby by then?.

Sparkplug

Both times I went back...

13

Did you Ever Dream About Armageddon?

by Englishman in

jw
friends

just the once.. i was 19 years old.

i was stll fairly pure except for the odd escapade that involved just a touch of finger-pie.

so there was some semblance of guilt hanging over my head.

Sparkplug

In my dreams it was always about being in a concentration camp during the great tribulation or being separated from my family when Armegeddon broke out or...... the "clean up" after Armegeddon was one I had constantly....

Same here but with a twist...all the bodies are gone and all the cool houses and malls are left and I get to pick a home and go shopping!!

45

I am scared of my future marriage

by jwbot in

i am watching oprah (right now actually) and the topic hits close to home.

good timing actually, because yesterday i was thinking of talking with my fiance, mike about this very thing.

you see, mike really loves kids, and we plan to have them eventually, its a very important part in our relationship (to him, mostly).

Sparkplug

Love does not divide...It is a multiply thing. Each person gets their own kind of love and each love is special. There is no way to descrbe the love for a child as being the same as the love for a spouse. Each is unique and cannot be filled by the other. Having kids though is something I would wait to do because once you have them, you cannot put that thing back where it came from. I would deffinitely say if you have a choice, wait for 5 or more years and build the love you have with your spouse so that it is strong to face the challenges of children.

IMO as a parent that if you mix families always expect you will get a different love than the ex had and a different love than the new spouse has with the children from that family. This is a good thing. Because you don't need a parent and there is a reason an ex is an ex...see?

The best you can do is always put ALL of the children first and make sure that you do not neglect your spouse. The same as you would earn the respect and love of a spouse with no children.......well it is the same as you would have to do if they have children. The kids and the spose appreciate you more if you don't try to take anyones place. Make your own spot.

34

New Baby Pics

by Bryan in

jw
friends

heeeeeerrrr'sss... sebastien!.

he's doing great!

he finally found the nookie and is eating well.

Sparkplug

I cannot tell which one is more beautiful...momma or baby...What a wonderful family!!

34

New Baby Pics

by Bryan in

jw
friends

heeeeeerrrr'sss... sebastien!.

he's doing great!

he finally found the nookie and is eating well.

Sparkplug

Congrats. I am happy for you. Love his name.

36

Would you change your past if you could?

by John Doe in

jw
friends

i used to live with many regrets, thinking that i'd screwed up.

recently, i've been thinking that regretting past actions is not constructive.

sure, we should base our current actions by assessing the results of our former actions, but regretting decisions we've made is, in effect, yearning to change the person we are now or rejecting ourselves.

Sparkplug

a guy who's putting off his homework.

Sorry John.. no comment on my life and changes, but I had to say that I am right there with you.

Sparkplug from the "put off homework class"

104

mmnnnnn ... who makes you just "melt"

by Simon in

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for an oldie i'd pick audrey hepburn singing moon river ... mmnnnn, i never get tired of that.. currently i'm listening to norah jones an aweful lot.

she is very easy on the ears and is my "audible-heaven" right now.. so who's voice makes you 'melt' ?

Sparkplug

OMG How could I forget Sara McGlauclen-

Dido-White Flag and Thank you

and Norah Jones. eSpecially--Turn Me On

Annie Lennox---She is amazing

*****But lately I have been putting the mp3 on "Brothers In Arms"********I cannot place the man who sings its name right now...but I an stuck on it. His voice....Well all should hunt it down and listen to it right now. Light a candle and close your eyes.

Roberta Flack-

AND MARIO LANZA-O Sole Mio