There are jws who do not know about the Y restriction.
And this lady is STUDYING. Jeez people, calling her names?
OP, please keep asking your questions and don't be discouraged by the way you were treated. Many of us have been terribly abused and manipulated by this religion, and we're bitter. Also, there have been many fakers on this site trying to stir up trouble, so if anyone says something a slightly bit off-center, they tend to get jumped on.
Keep thinking, keep your inquisitiveness. You're on the right track.