My father did not participate very much in raising me.
I saw that a lot- fathers would just give up and turn over the raising of the kids to the JW mother to buy some peace at home. Holidays, birthdays, Saturday morning fun- all given up to please the JW wife and her Elder overseers at the KH-
Glad you made it out jaguarbass- you have most of your life ahead of you- enjoy the freedom.