It should be noted that if two or more credible eyewitnesses can confirm that the mate has stayed all
night in the same house with a person of the opposite sex-(or a known homosexual) under improper circumstances, the elders may put the responsibility upon the innocent mate to decide if this is sufficient basis for him or her to obtain a divorce and marry another.
Wow... what legalistic garbage... a lot of hanky-panky can take place in less than all night. This is just like them, they go waaaaayyy beyond what the bible says and cause heartache and trouble wherever they go. How stupid.
I didn't see anything though that would say why they couldn't tell the 'innocent' partner that proof had been obtained that the 'non-innocent' partner had done the horizontal limbo. Unless they are going by this statement...
It is the responsibility of the individual to produce convincing evidence to establish Scriptural freedom to remarry.
If so, that is weak at best as a reason to delay releasing someone they know to be free in "God's eyes."
J