I can assure you that, people do get 'stuck' in the Society! Just because you've been in Bethel for decades, doesn't meanyou still believe all of it - or even any of it. But what are going to do if you leave? Say good bye to your position? your
"friends" in the "truth"? Your relatives?
metatron,
You hit the nail on the head with this point! As a former bethelite, i have seen this attitude personally. Bethel elders and wives who have been there for years couldnt imagine leaving, not because of their tremendous faith but because they have become comfortable there. You dont necessarily have to share the belief system to be at bethel...just be fed and given a roof over your head.