Posts by cr1234

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Anyone from North of Boston?

by cognac in

i'm here!

I'm a Pioneer Married To a Wonderful Brother Reaching Out to be an MS...

by cognac in

and petrified... i just recently became a pioneer and always had nagging questions in the back of my mind.

so, i decided that when i have get a study i would research all the questions as i go along so as to prove everything in the truth... i got 4 studies in about 2 months.

all was fine, until i reached i think chapter 6 in the bible teach book about the resurrection.

I was a witness for over 30 years and when you start having questions you had better keep them between you and your husband. You will lose your family if you start talking about having questions. You know that the JW's don't like questions. You are on the right track now because you are starting to think for yourself. I suggest you take the time to think it all through before you start mentioning anything to any other witnesses. Just talk to your husband and use this board to help get the right answers on bible questions. There are so many smart people on here that will help you work on the process.

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private watchtower??

by cr1234 in

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does anyone have information on the two different watchtowers that are coming out.

one for the "spritually strong" and the other for the "worldy people"?

i would love to see a copy of that private watchtower.

cr1234

Does anyone have information on the two different watchtowers that are coming out. One for the "spritually strong" and the other for the "worldy people"? I would love to see a copy of that private watchtower. Can anyone scan it in?

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do i go with my gut instinct???(long, im sorry, but i need help)

by theinfamousone in

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so, simply put, i am in love... and love makes a man do some really stupid things.... love makes a pretty damn intelligent man feel pretty damn stupid quite often as well... so here's my story... i have been dating this girl for almost a year now... she is beautiful, sweet, and really just everything i imagined in a life mate... she lives with me... she doesnt work, while i do full time, and also go to school... i make very good money, so that does not bother me... but heres where it all begins... a few months ago, she went to cuba with her sisters, and imoved her into my place while she was gone, her idea, not mine.. now we keep our condoms in a certain place.... anyways, her box of condoms was gone, with her... when she comes back, our little box of condoms is empty.... instead of asking her about it, i explained it to myself as she must have given them to her sister.... .

while i am gone at work, i usually give her a call on my breaks... i notice that she never answers the phone between 6-8 pm.. home or cell... her explanation is that she is always in the shower... the problem with that is that she is always coming out of the shower when i get home.... i get home at around nine... so either she is taking a 3 hour shower or she is taking two showers a night..... she disappears off the face of the earth everytime she goes home to visit her family... like shes not home, shes not answering her phone and only ever calls me when she is in her car....her explanation is that she is at a cousins house.. conveniently, one that i do not know..... last night she went to a wedding... it was over at 11, i know this because she had told me, nd a friend of mine tht was there said that it ended then,,, it was a dry wedding, no dancing... very religious people... i was supposed to meet her at 130 today, i got to the train station that she was coming to, 15 minutes early and waited over an hour there... finally as i decied to walk back home, she gives me a call... i will be home at 5, meet me at the train.... of course, i have been calling her since last night at 11 to tell her i would meet her at 130 as she had planned... i made brunch for her, which is now in the garbage... i was scared shitless she had been hit by a car or dead since her phone has been off since last night.... i asked her why she is so late, i was helping move things until 3am last night... bull shit.. all the gifts were given prior to the weding and the bride and groom had already moved into their new place.... i know because she has told me in the past.....her phone was dead according to her... but all of the sudden, she is able to use it.... no charger, but she can use it..... i did confront her once, and she exploded on me!!!!

like screamed and screamed and said she was insulted i even asked... textbook defensive behaviour right????.

cr1234

You already know what you need to do. You now have to find the courage to do it. It is hard to admit that the one you love is not on the up and up and if her family is helping her be sneaky then you need to walk away from all of them. You sound like your a nice person and she is totally taking advantage of you! RUN

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field service time???

by cr1234 in

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does anyone know how much time a person has to put in now to still be a regular pub in this day and age???.

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cr1234

Does anyone know how much time a person has to put in now to still be a regular pub in this day and age???

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What Lies or False Statements Has The Watchtower Society Been Guilty Of?

by minimus in

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for an organization that claims to be the heralder of the "truth", it seems they have a history of mistakes.

they assert that one must believe their "faithful slave" but who is that "slave"?

is it charles taze russell or all the anointed ones living on earth at a given time?

cr1234

Rusty called she wants you to come and play the trombone!

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Non JW dating a DF JW

by ea1974 in

hello..im new to this site and am really lost.

my bf of 3 years has been raised a jw.

he was married for 7 years and during this separation, was disfellowshipped.

cr1234

My heart goes out to you! I don't think that this is about being a witness. It is a flaw that he has emotionaly and you need to be strong and get support from your family. He isn't going to change! I know you want him to but unless he gets help he isn't ever going to make a good husband. Who wants a man that acts like that anyway????

Also, I have had friends that marry the disfellowshipped witness only to find that it never works out. He can't even make his mind up about the religion. Step back and look at the situation. Please don't let him bring the baby up a witness. I have 3 kids and they are all grown but none are witness and my husband and I finally walked away. Life is good and my kids don't regret the hall but they don't want it in there lives at all. I think now of all the time I wasted at meetings, etc. When I could have been with my kids and husband doing fun family things.

BUT A NEW PAIR OF SNEAKERS AND RUN LIKE HELL!!!!!

C

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does anyone know joseph Dettore (Florida)

by cr1234 in

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friends

joe dettore is a witness in florida.

trying to find information on him.

very important!

cr1234

Joe Dettore is a witness in Florida. Trying to find information on him. Very important!

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booklet on child custody question?????

by cr1234 in

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friends

my daughter is getting a divorce.

her husband has decided to become a witness again after 6 years.

we believe he is doing this to get full custody because he is going to be the perfect witness now.

cr1234

My daughter is getting a divorce. Her husband has decided to become a witness again after 6 years. We believe he is doing this to get full custody because he is going to be the perfect witness now. He hasn't been to the hall at all in 6 years. Does anyone have a copy of that booklet that we can download about Fathers with worldly wives????

thanks