Vincent
However I don't do things like The Occult or use a ouija board.
I have for some time (although having different beliefs) attended the Spiritualist church and quite enjoy my time there. I have nothing against spiritualism at all and its great you have found an alternative. What struck me as a little odd though is that you suggested you didnt practice the Occult!?
Divination (in particular the Tarot); Communion with Spirit; Psychic Development; Aura Reading are all occult and or esoteric - if you practice any of these things you are practicing the Occult!
Dont get me wrong, I am not criticising and I certainly have no problem with the Occult (being a practicing Druid) but lets call it what it is, theres no need to be ashamed.
Gary /|\