RR,
I found myself, and I think most here would tell you they had a similar experience, and that is once you move out you like your folks a lot better.
I think that is universal. Dub has nothing to do with it. You will like your mom better once you leave. You will like her even better once she leaves (the org that is).
Go easy on mom. She is the only woman that will really ever love you.
CYP
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