Posts by Check_Your

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Please help,don't want to lose my daughter

by katy in

Check_Your_Premises

We are ready, willing, and able to do anything to help you.

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Other than spiritual conversations you've heard at the Kingdom Hall.

by JH in

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i remember once talking to a brother at the kingdom hall, who was a car mechanic, and i asked him a little question about my car, and he replied, we don't talk about this at the kingdom hall, meaning we should only talk about spiritual things.... .

gee, i couldn't believe what he told me, when just about everyone at the hall talks about anything butt religious stuff..

Check_Your_Premises

I asked him a little question about my car, and he replied

This is probably just his way of keeping from being inundated with car questions and mooching brothers wanting free repairs.

CYP

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"Joined-As-Adult" JW's: What need did the WT fulfill for you?

by Check_Your_Premises in

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were you able to fulfill or remove that need in some way?

did fulfilling that need make it possible or easier for you to exit the wt?

Check_Your_Premises

In the beginning it seemed so, but as time went on, the fact that they weren't fulfilling that need, and their lies, failed preditions, lack of love, ect. time to leave...

So you were able to fulfill those needs outside the org?

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"Joined-As-Adult" JW's: What need did the WT fulfill for you?

by Check_Your_Premises in

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were you able to fulfill or remove that need in some way?

did fulfilling that need make it possible or easier for you to exit the wt?

Check_Your_Premises

Yes. I accepted that no one or thing has control over life. I must look to myself for strength.

What went into you having this realization? What external forces allowed or influenced it?

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"Joined-As-Adult" JW's: What need did the WT fulfill for you?

by Check_Your_Premises in

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were you able to fulfill or remove that need in some way?

did fulfilling that need make it possible or easier for you to exit the wt?

Check_Your_Premises

You understand my motivation Crumpy.

Much time and talk are spent here discussing certain facts about jw's to bring to light. There is also the school of thought that you have to approach it as a cult/mind control problem. But I think it goes even deeper, and is specific to the individual. I think absolutely NOTHING you can do or say will make a difference to the person if they NEED to believe in the jw.

If you are able to remove the need, or fulfill it in some way, I think then the other approaches become possible.

Before that, no dice.

So as my dear, sweet, and absolutely lovely sister Crumpy pointed out, the question is more aimed at jw's.

CYP

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I'm back!!!!

by RichieRich in

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hello again from sunny north carolina!!!.

our state lotto started today, and i won 15 dollars, and only bought 1 $1 card.

so whoop whoop for gambling.. i was in miami florida last week for the photoshop world conference, but i also got to tour the everglades, where i took some beautiful pictures.

Check_Your_Premises

Hey Richie! Welcome back and congratulations on your little trophy. Oh the scandal that will erupt when they finally catch on to all your activities. Your hall will just never be the same.

Hey Crumpet! Love the new picture. But then again I love all of them. Hope things are well. Glad to see you around.

CYP

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