Pleasuredome,
I must admit I enjoyed your points. Having grown up with, gone to school with, and worked with Muslims I can say that good positive relations are possible, and I have known many good people in the Muslim community. However, I think Mary makes some very good points. It is easy to say Muslims do not view us Infidels, etc, but consider what their own holy book has to say! For those of us who have read the Quran, it is a wonder that all Muslims are not "extreme" and "radical", b/c the Quran makes its quite clear that that is what being a good Muslim involves.