Inquirer,
You seem to put a lot of stock in the inferiority of Jesus based on his title Son of God. I'd like to separate references to the man, Jesus of Nazareth, and the Word (logos) who was one with the Father in the beginning, and who lived among people in the man Jesus. When people ask, "Was Jesus Created?" of course, they are referring to the Word, perhaps the messenger of the YHWH, the memra of YHWH, or what the WT teaches was the Archangel Michael. According to the NT books, Jesus of Nazareth, the man, was born in human fashion to Mary. So Jesus had a definite beginning in history if we take the gospel accounts to be historical books.
Remember, from the gospel books of Matthew and Luke, we are told that the child, Jesus, was conceived in Mary by the power of the Holy Spirit. Now, Son of God has a lot of meaning in it, but this is where it starts--at the conception, or birth, if you prefer. Jesus of Nazareth, the walking, breathing, physical man was conceived without Joseph or any other natural father, but from God Almighty, so that is why Jesus is called the Son of God. No pre-incarnate manifestation of the Word is referred to as the unique Son of God. There are only prophecies looking ahead to one whom God would call his Son. The Bible does not address how the Word came to be, other than to say he was with God in the beginning, so we cannot speak of the Word as being created, or even born in any sense.
Jesus of Nazareth, on the other hand, was not only born physically, but was subject to all kinds of limitations that came with having a human physical body. Some of these he could overcome by taking command of natural forces, but remember, the gospels speak of him getting his power and insight from the Holy Spirit, even after his resurrection. For the most part, he lived as a kind of super-prophet. Nevertheless, the Word, the one who was God and with God in the beginning, was in Jesus, perhaps as his own spirit, and that is how we see fit to refer to Jesus as God. That title is completely appropriate even though he is forever bound with certain limitations because of the human--albeit glorified--body.
So there's no problem with Jesus saying that the Father was greater than him, nor with the Almighty being the "God and Father of the Lord Jesus Christ."