why God won't can't or just doesn't care to end all of the confusion.
We may both end up athiests.
I don't think we will ever be able to answer these questions, which seem to assume that God is a kind of Being like a person, but with superhuman powers, and which operates in spacetime like we do, making choices and decisions etc.
People are all different, and seem to reach different levels of understanding, enlightenment and experience, or not, through such as mysticism, religion, science, etc. For me science and Christianity gets me closest, but not without doubts.
Perhaps the common attempts to interpret the nature of God from face-value Bible reading are mistaken, and lead to the type of questions posed by this thread. Perhaps our questions in our minds are somehow the wrong approach?
I believe Jesus Christ was real and was special, but why did he always speak in metaphor, parables, symbolism and hyperbole. But that does not make his words false, even though he was often misunderstood, even by NT authors.
I always found it hard to reconcile the Bible with science, and the Bible with itself, but reconciled a lot of my questions and doubts this summer unexpectedly whilst reading what I expected to be an orthodox Christian source. I'm almost embarassed to say it was something of a Eureka moment, when I no longer had to apologise to myself for having seemingly conflicting beliefs. The jig-saw started to fit, although I'm not sure I have all the pieces!
I still don't have the answers, but at least I have a manual in a language I can learn to understand. http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/tg/stores/detail/-/books/0281056803/reviews/202-9610847-2603032