If they are going to push children to be baptized, then like the court system, there should be different consequences/punishments. Instead, make a decision at 12 that turns out to be wrong for you, and you will suffer the consequences your entire life.
I've asked some people who are keen to see children baptized if they would agree to let a child get married. When they say, "No," I've asked, "which is the more important decision?" They have to say, "baptism." I'm not sure if this reasoning sticks with them, however.
I agree with the posters who pointed out that it is about control. If there are truly horrible consequences for leaving, 37% will stay.
Cate
PS I was baptized at 13. Because all my friends were getting baptized.