TXNVSUE2023:
I happen to agree with your post 100%.
This is what I have been saying all along: they try to say that full-time jobs are bad.. Meanwhile the hypocrite that spoke to you works (his wife as well).. Like you, I am the head of my household (even if it’s only one). They don’t like to acknowledge that if you are a woman.
I believe at this point the religion is desperate to keep younger people in the seats there. Hence the absurd advice to hardly work. They don’t care if somebody starves! Meanwhile, they are in the lap of luxury and not in reality about things like paying bills.
I also know the difference between making a living and chasing riches. They are not the same - even though the Witness religion tries to make it as if they are. They are so deceptive.
Back in the late seventies I was treated like an outcast in the congregation because I wouldn’t buckle under their pressure to quit my job and do housecleaning/pioneering - the only approved course for a young woman.
Maybe I can credit my non-JW upbringing for helping to resist their bad advice(?) I just know I would not be retired today if I listened to them back then. They certainly would not be supporting me - or anybody else.