PHIZZY:
Yes, it is unfortunately true that people who leave the Jehovah’s Witnesses lose their friends, contacts and sometimes family members! Even if you don’t lose all your friends right away, in time they will all be gone.
I understand these losses are really terrible for born-ins and I wish there was a way to alleviate this.. For somebody like me..who was NOT raised in and came in a young working adult with no family there - the loss was nonexistent.
I view the Witnesses like people I worked with on an unpleasant job I had years ago.
I was so elated to be done with it (I ‘Faded’ after the 1995 Generation teaching) and to reconnect with relatives/old friends that it was well worth it to ‘lose’ judgmental acquaintances.... Likewise, it was worth every nickel to be shunned (by these PIMI die-hards) because I worked full-time.
My experience in the JWs was a life lesson learned and I’m glad it’s all in the past.