I've changed my attitude about disfellowshipping now. A wonderful comparison was made that made the whole thing a lot more palatable.
Disfellowshipping is a lot like standing your child in the corner...kind of a time out...so that they can think about things. If we keep interupting their "time out" with association, etc., well....what good is it.
Most in the congregation nodded their heads in unison on this one. After all, the illustration came from a Circuit Overseer.